The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
A mile or so beyond the cottage the lane crossed a stream by a low
stone bridge. It was a cheerless spot in the dusk of evening, for
the water ran dark and stealthily between old grey willow-trees, but
here it was that he found her, by herself and leaning over the low
stone parapet. He went straight up to her and said “Good evening,”
before he noticed that she was crying quietly, as those people do
whose tears are frequent. Putting his hand over hers as it lay on
the wall he asked her what was amiss. For one second she looked up
in his face, and he made sure that he would learn her secret. The
next instant a look of terror passed over her, and she snatched her
hand away. Before he could say a word or recover from his surprise
she was gone. He saw the white flutter of her pinafore as she ran
homewards down the murky lane, and he never saw her again. By the
next evening the house was unoccupied once more, and he had nothing
but the memory of a child’s pathos which could never be explained.
* * * * *
[Sidenote: A Slighted Child.]
There is just one other bit of pathos which crops up now and again in
children’s lives. It happens sometimes that their devotion to someone
who has shown them kindness or taken notice of them is accidentally
overlooked, and the consequent feeling of desertion is most pathetic.
Girls are more liable to this experience than boys, and when it is
borne in upon a small child for the first time that she is less
attractive than her fellows and must in consequence expect to receive
less notice even from those upon whom she has poured out her chief
store of affection, the suffering entailed is frequently acute.
In selecting a teacher or companion for children it would be no bad
plan to observe those who on an occasion when many little ones are
gathered together take notice of the ugly children. They are the true
child-lovers.
An example of the kind of pathos referred to came to the notice of
the writer some years ago at a children’s party, and he set down the
sensations of the little girl in question in some lines which she is
supposed to speak.
“MY BISSOP.”
I went to the Bissop’s party
In my vi’let velveteen:
The others went last year, you know,
But I hadn’t never been.
I was only four; and mother said
It was really _much_ too late!
But now I’m five—though all a year
Was a _’mendous_ time to wait!
I knew the Bissop very well,
For didn’t I sit on his knee
When he came for Confummation,
And stopped at our house for tea?
He’s a dear old man—our Bissop—
And he’ll hardly ever miss
Stroking the hair of a little girl
And giving her a kiss.
So I _did_ look forward to going,
(And I whispered it all to my doll)—
Though Tom said he didn’t see the good
Of taking a mealy-faced Moll.
But I didn’t know I was ugly,
And nothing about being shy,
So I couldn’t sit still with ’citement
All the whole way in the fly!
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