The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
By the roadside, in the field ways, by the pathway near the brook, at
many a cottage doorway, by many a wicket-gate, our country children,
in the beauty of healthfulness and youth, add a hundredfold to the
happiness of those who passing by have eyes to see and hearts to
understand.
[Sidenote: And in the Town.]
But there are others. It is impossible to pass along the side streets
of our many towns without finding the little wayside children. They
are mostly those who are of that specially attractive age which makes
them just too young to go to school and just too old to be kept in
the house, so they get somewhere between the two places, and are
generally playing in the gutter.
They have not often the same beauty as the country children, and they
have not the same readiness to accept the approaches of “grown-ups.”
Their surroundings almost from their birth make them suspicious and
on their guard against possible dangers. But they are children for
all that. They will notice and respond to a friendly smile. It is
wonderful how a sharp and anxious little face is beautified by the
smile that after a moment of doubt will come in answer.
Go down a long street of mean houses, each one the counterpart of
every other, and see if there be anything to brighten the way that
can compare with the laughter and the play of the wayside children.
It is more difficult perhaps to appreciate these little ones, but it
should be remembered that a friendly greeting is worth more to them
than to a country child who gets a dozen such on its way from school.
The reflected light, the responsive happiness is not so evident at
first sight as in the case of country children, but it is even more
real when once confidence has been established.
[Sidenote: How a Child’s Friendship was Won.]
A man whose daily walk led him down a certain dingy street saw a tiny
boy with grimy face and badly developed limbs playing with a banana
skin in the gutter. The man nodded to him—the boy shrank away in
terror. Next day the man nodded again. The boy had decided there was
nothing to be afraid of, and spat at the man. Next day the boy only
stared. The day after he shouted “Hi!” as the man went on. In time
the little fellow smiled back at the greeting which he now began to
expect. Finally the triumph was complete when the boy—a tiny chap—was
waiting at the corner and seized the man’s fingers in his dirty
little fist. It was a dismal street, but it became one of the very
brightest spots in all that man’s walk through life.
CHAPTER IX
CHILDREN’S MEETINGS
In these days, when the teaching of any virtue necessitates a special
Society, and when no Society is complete without its Children’s
Branch, children’s meetings are matters of almost everyday occurrence.
To say that these meetings are for the most part successful would
be scarcely accurate. They are too numerous, and speakers to whom
children will listen are too few.
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