The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of childrenHow, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
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The book of the child: An attempt to set down what is in the mind of children
How, F. D. (Frederick Douglas)
Child psychology
But to speak more seriously: yet another matter to bear in mind
is that monotony must at all costs be avoided. A speech which,
however good in other ways, is entirely pathetic, will fail to keep
children’s attention, while a speech that is entirely funny will
fail to rouse their interest in the object of the meeting. There may
be tears—a few—there must be laughter—now and then. There must be
stories and there must be morals: the art is to make the one almost
as interesting as the other.
[Sidenote: Position of Speaker Important.]
It may perhaps be allowed to insert here one or two practical hints.
For instance, it is absolutely essential that the children should
be able to see the face of the speaker clearly. It is well that he,
too, should be able to see the faces of his audience. But the former
is the more important. If a room, then, has windows so placed that
either the speaker or the children must face them, it is better that
the speaker should do so. Children find it almost impossible to
listen to anyone whom they cannot see, a fact which points to the
value of a sustained effort on the part of the speaker to catch the
eye of first one and then another of his audience.
[Sidenote: Meetings as Informal as Possible.]
That leads on to the desirability of getting rid so far as possible
of _formality_. There should be no barriers between the speaker and
the children. A high platform is fatal. It is even more fatal when
there is also a table and a water bottle. The speaker should be as
close to the children as he can, consistently with being able to see
and be seen.
[Sidenote: A Successful Meeting.]
Here is a description of a thoroughly successful children’s meeting.
A large low room with old oak beams and a dark polished floor. The
only light a blazing fire of logs. In the darker corners a few groups
of mothers and other “grown ups.” Near the centre of the floor, two
or three large Indian mats, and in front of them a big low easy chair
facing the fire light. In this chair is the speaker, and on his knees
and on the arms of the chair cluster three or four of the smallest
children. The rest are sitting just anyhow upon the coloured mats.
They are all perfectly quiet and well inclined for a rest, for they
have just had a succession of games—blind man’s buff and “Jacob,
where art thou?” the favourites. For half-an-hour or so they sit and
listen to the story of other children less happy than themselves, and
learn how best to help them. Then comes “Good-night,” and they go
away with impressions still vivid, and with new and brave resolutions.
[Sidenote: Garden Meetings.]
Some such happy informal talks as this may often be held in summer on
the grass beneath the trees, but the many distractions of the open
air—a butterfly may turn away all thoughts—make such meetings more
difficult than those held indoors.
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