The Chautauquan, Vol. 04, December 1883Chautauqua Literary and Scientific Circle
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The Chautauquan, Vol. 04, December 1883
Chautauqua Literary and Scientific Circle
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Dress changes, but we are not to suppose on that account that the make of
the body changes also. Politeness or rudeness, knowledge or ignorance,
more or less of a certain degree of guilelessness and simplicity, a
serious or playful humor; these are but the outer crust of a man, and may
all change; but the heart changes not, and the whole of man is in the
heart. One age is ignorant, but the fashion of being learned may come; we
are all moved by self-interest, but the fashion of being disinterested
will never come. Amidst the countless myriads of creatures born in the
space of a hundred years, nature may perhaps produce two or three dozen
of rational beings whom she must scatter over the world, and you can
readily imagine that they are never found any where in such large numbers
as to set the fashion of virtue and uprightness.—_Fontenelle._
MAN OF LEARNING, TELL ME SOMETHING.
By MARGARET MEREDITH.
I wonder if men could not be persuaded to alter their style of
conversation with girls, to talk to us as they talk to men?
We have a feeling that learned young men are the dullest of talkers; not
because they talk weightily; Oh, no! because they talk so lightly, and
lightness is not their forte.
A diligent student, a very cormorant, perhaps, of knowledge, dons a white
necktie and sallies forth, and resolutely leaves behind for the evening
every material he has wherewith to make himself agreeable. He is not
witty, he is too busy to be a gossip, he is too little in company to
learn an easy jog of commonplace or compliment. So he sits on a sofa,
and the girl makes some opening remark, to which he replies with studied
interest; and at the pause she magnetically feels that it is best to make
a longer remark this time. If she were talking to a lad, she might drift
into expressing some of her real ideas, and find profit and pleasure in
airing them; but for the amusement of this young savant, by no means.
Still, at his next turn to speak, or the next, she has come suggestively
near some subject worth talking of; if he were with a man he would
instantly plunge in, and in five minutes they would be deep in discussion
or description, sharpening their wits by every sentence, fixing what they
have read, shaping their crude opinions, thoroughly enjoying each other;
and for this they need not be equals in cultivation, nor altogether
equals in mind.
Why should it be so different when talking with a woman? There is no
reason, but habit. One says, “People dislike to talk shop; the busy
scholar wants a rest.” On the contrary, most people, I think, would
rather talk shop than anything else. If it is their life interest and
their strong point, they have so much more to say. The truth is, they
fear that the listener will object, and so “in company” they avoid it. I
wager the listener would be delighted.
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