Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
"He tells us that _he_ should advise us to make our distressed woman
Marianne's housekeeper, and to send South for three or four contrabands
for her to train, and, with great apparent complacency, seems to think
that course will solve all similar cases of difficulty."
"That's quite a man's view of the subject," said Jennie. "They think
any woman who isn't particularly fitted to do anything else can keep
house."
"As if housekeeping were not the very highest craft and mystery of
social life," said I. "I admit that our sex speak too unadvisedly on
such topics, and, being well instructed by my household priestesses,
will humbly suggest the following ideas to my correspondent.
"1st. A woman is not of course fit to be a housekeeper because she is a
woman of good education and refinement.
"2d. If she were, a family with young children in it is not the proper
place to establish a school for untaught contrabands, however desirable
their training may be.
"A woman of good education and good common sense may _learn_ to be a
good housekeeper, as she learns any trade, by going into a good family
and practising first one and then another branch of the business, till
finally she shall acquire the comprehensive knowledge to direct all.
"The next letter I will read.
"'DEAR MR. CROWFIELD,--Your papers relating to the domestic problem
have touched upon a difficulty which threatens to become a matter
of life and death with me.
"'I am a young man, with good health, good courage, and good
prospects. I have, for a young man, a fair income, and a prospect
of its increase. But my business requires me to reside in a country
town near a great manufacturing city. The demand for labor there
has made such a drain on the female population of the vicinity,
that it seems, for a great part of the time, impossible to keep any
servants at all; and what we can hire are of the poorest quality,
and want exorbitant wages. My wife was a well-trained housekeeper,
and knows perfectly all that pertains to the care of a family; but
she has three little children, and a delicate babe only a few weeks
old; and _can_ any one woman do all that is needed for such a
household? Something must be trusted to servants; and what is thus
trusted brings such confusion and waste and dirt into our house,
that the poor woman is constantly distraught between the disgust of
having them and the utter impossibility of doing without them.
"'Now it has been suggested that we remedy the trouble by paying
higher wages; but I find that for the very highest wages I secure
only the most miserable service; and yet, poor as it is, we are
obliged to put up with it, because there is an amount of work to be
done in our family that is absolutely beyond my wife's strength.
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