You are about, Sir, to send your son to a public school; Eton or
Westminster; Winchester or Harrow; Rugby or the Charter House, no
matter which. He may come from either an accomplished scholar to the
utmost extent that school education can make him so; he may be the
better both for its discipline and its want of discipline; it may
serve him excellently well as a preparatory school for the world into
which he is about to enter. But also he may come away an empty coxcomb
or a hardened brute—a spendthrift—a profligate—a blackguard or a sot.
To put a boy in the way he should go, is like sending out a ship well
found, well manned and stored, and with a careful captain; but there
are rocks and shallows in her course, winds and currents to be
encountered, and all the contingencies and perils of the sea.
How often has it been seen that sons, not otherwise deficient in duty
toward their parents, have, in the most momentous concerns of life,
taken the course most opposite to that in which they were trained to
go, going wrong where the father would have directed them aright, or
taking the right path in spite of all inducements and endeavours for
leading them wrong! The son of Charles Wesley, born and bred in
methodism and bound to it by all the strongest ties of pride and
prejudice, became a papist. This indeed was but passing from one
erroneous persuasion to another, and a more inviting one. But Isaac
Casaubon also had the grief of seeing a son seduced into the Romish
superstition, and on the part of that great and excellent man, there
had been no want of discretion in training him, nor of sound learning
and sound wisdom. Archbishop Leighton, an honor to his church, his
country, and his kind, was the child of one of those firebrands who
kindled the Great Rebellion. And Franklin had a son, who
notwithstanding the example of his father (and such a father!)
continued stedfast in his duty as a soldier and a subject; he took the
unsuccessful side—but
_nunquam successu crescat honestum._[1]
[Footnote 1: LUCAN.]
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