The Friendly Club and Other PortraitsParsons, Francis
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The Friendly Club and Other Portraits
Parsons, Francis
Authors, American; Hartford (Conn.) -- Biography
It was in a rough-shod manner, regardless of obstacles, that Doctor
Hawes plowed his way through life. He did not know how to compromise.
Tact, adaptability, adjustment, finesse,--these words were not included
in his vocabulary. He paid little attention to the amenities of
existence, but went directly to his object, as on the occasion when in
prayer meeting, after lamenting the fact that ordinarily only a few
persons took active part in these gatherings, he suddenly called upon
one diffident attendant, whose voice had never been heard, with the
peremptory request, "Brother Jones, will you lead us in prayer--and we
won't take any excuse."
He spoke the plain truth as he saw it, regardless of whether it was
appropriate, or sometimes whether it hurt. A distinguished lawyer, no
longer living, once told the writer that when he was a small boy the
doctor met him one day in the street, stopped him, put his hand on his
head, and, after gazing intently at him for so long that the child
became rather frightened, at last ejaculated, "Charles, you remind me so
much of your grandfather--_he_ was a hard-featur'd man!"
This absolute sincerity, this disdain of any pretense or artificiality,
this almost childlike naïveté, while they furnished many amusing and
sometimes embarrassing incidents, had no small part in endearing the
good man in the hearts of his people. Indeed the significant thing about
the numerous anecdotes of him that are still occasionally quoted is that
while so many of them turn on his peculiarities and eccentricities, none
of them seems to detract from the affection and esteem in which the man
and his memory are held in the traditions of his church. Doubtless the
reason is that these stories essentially serve to delineate and illumine
the portrait of an intensely earnest, able and vigorous servant of God
and his fellow men.
His humor was not all unconscious. He had his own notions of the
incongruous and diverting. On one of his journeys abroad he wrote of
the tombs in Westminster Abby--"There lie in promiscuous assemblage
kings, queens, statesmen, warriors, poets, scholars, prostitutes, and
villains, each, by his epitaph, now in heaven, but all awaiting the
decisions of the last day, which, in a great majority of cases, will, it
cannot be doubted, reverse forever the judgment of man."
There was, too, another side to him. Hidden in the uncouth body was a
kindly and sympathetic heart. Children, at first awed and possibly
repelled by his appearance and manners, soon grew to love him. His
biographer quotes him as saying that he could never go past a hand-organ
in the street without stopping to listen with the children and see the
monkey.
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