The Great Acceptance: The Life Story of F. N. CharringtonThorne, Guy
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The Great Acceptance: The Life Story of F. N. Charrington
Thorne, Guy
Charrington, Fredk. N. (Frederick Nicholas), 1850-1936; Poor -- England -- London
"His kindly voice and genial smile will live in the
recollection of his friends; like good Bishop Hacket of
Lichfield, he might have taken as his motto, 'Serve God and
be cheerful.' Side by side, however, with his geniality,
there was in Keith-Falconer at all times the most perfect
and, so to speak, transparent simplicity. Never was a
character more free from any alloy of insincerity or
meanness. No undertone of veiled unkindness, or jealousy, or
selfishness, found place in his conversation. From the most
absolute truthfulness he would never waver; his frank, open
speech was genuine, the unmixed outcome of his feelings.
"A certain slight, very slight, deafness in one ear made him
at times seem absent to those who did not know this, and
unknowingly had sat or walked on the wrong side.
"A characteristic habit of his seemed now and then to give a
certain degree of irrelevance in his remarks. Sometimes,
when in conversation on a topic which interested him, he
would, after remaining silent for a short time, join again
in the conversation with a remark not altogether germane to
the point at issue. He had been following out a train of
thought suggested by some passing remark, and after working
out the idea on his own lines, as far as it would go, made
his comment on the result. Yet whenever the conversation had
to do with the interests or needs of those to whom he was
speaking, no one could throw himself more completely, heart
and mind, into the matter. Talk for talking's sake he
cordially abhorred, that talk which is simply made as though
silence were necessarily a bad thing in itself.
"This interest in widely different topics of conversation
was not, however, simply the result of mingled good-nature
and courtesy, a mere complaisance, where it was but a
careless good-nature that saved the courtesy from
hollowness. Far from it. No one who knew Keith-Falconer
well, needs to be told how thoroughly, how constantly, and
in what varying ways, he could make the business or cause of
another his own; whether it were a friend in need of help,
from the most trifling to the most momentous matters, or the
absolute stranger whom apparent chance had sent across his
path.
"Still, with all this, his kindliness was by no means one
lacking in its proper counterpoise of discretion; his
strong, clear-headed, Scotch common-sense was constantly
manifest, even in his schemes of beneficence. Yet even thus
it must be remembered that his was a character in which the
warm heart was guided in its action by the clear head, not
one in which the clear head did but allow itself to be
swayed more or less by the loving heart. Love was the
dominant power, discretion the corrective influence."
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