The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
In every tent was hung a gun, as robbers are frequent visitors, and each
dweller in the tent must protect his own. He keeps a fierce and noisy
dog that sees a stranger far across the sands, and one is followed far
beyond village confines by these canine police.
Polygamy is practised by the Bedouin more than it is by his city
brothers. I visited in the tent of a woman who was the second wife of
her husband, the other wife living in a tent adjoining. She had two
children, and the first wife one, and from what I heard there was not
the most pleasant relationship between them. Divorce is also one of the
evils, and these primitive men take advantage of it to an alarming
degree. Nearly every one I met had been divorced some time or other. It
was such a common occurrence that it produced no feeling of shame in the
woman who had been divorced.
The Bedouins are so proud of their lineage that they wish to keep the
tribal blood pure, and it leads to intermarriage. Cousins are frequently
married, and often a whole tribe is related in some manner. I was told
that the Bedouin settled an argument with a scolding or recalcitrant
wife by giving her a good chastising with a stick. While in Cairo I met
a most charming Bedouin who had left the sands for the gaieties of the
city. He was quite the polished gentleman to be found in any city, and I
was surprised when told that he had divorced his Bedouin wife because
she was not as progressive as his cosmopolitanism now required, and my
gossipy friend informed me, “They used to quarrel dreadfully and he
would beat her most frightfully.” I saw the lady in question, who had
returned to the tribe and remarried, and I rather admired the hardihood
of the somewhat effeminate man who would dare to try to beat this great
stalwart Bedouin woman, who looked as if she would take an active part
in any chastening that might be passing around her tent.
There is no such word as “privacy” in the Bedouin vocabulary; their
private life must be an open book to all the tribe. Their one great
blessing is the wonderfully clear, dry air, which gives them health and
vigour and makes them immune to many of the diseases that afflict their
Egyptian neighbour. But if they leave the desert and go to live within
the cities, they fall easy victims to the great white plague,
tuberculosis.
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