The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The virtuous decorum of Cyrus was an exception to the general character
of Persian princes. Men of rank, who could indulge their whims without
control, sometimes married their own sisters and daughters. Artaxerxes
Memnon, being in love with his beautiful daughter Atossa, had some
fears that the affair would not redound to his credit; but his mother
quieted these scruples by saying, “Are you not set over the Persians
by the gods, as the only rule of right and wrong?”
Another of the Persian kings called the magi together to give their
opinion on a similar occasion. The accommodating priests answered, “We
can find no law that authorizes a man to marry his own daughter; but
our laws authorize a king to do whatever he pleases.”
Some idea of the excessive voluptuousness of the Persian court in
ancient times may be derived from the account given of Ahasuerus.
By an old custom the queen had a right to ask any favor she thought
proper on the king’s birthday, and he was bound to grant it. Amestris,
the wife of Xemes, on one of these occasions, being filled with
vindictive jealousy, demanded that her sister-in-law should be mangled
in a most shocking manner and thrown to the dogs. The innocent victim,
who had in fact discouraged and resisted the king’s passion, was
destroyed in the most cruel manner.
The splendor which now characterizes Persian princes prevailed in
ancient times. The revenues of provinces were devoted to particular
articles of the queen’s wardrobe. This was implied by their names; one
being called the Queen’s Sandals, another the Queen’s Girdle, &c. The
use of false hair was not uncommon in Media and Persia.
The account given of Alexander’s marriage with the daughter of Darius
seems to imply that the ancient marriage ceremonies were very simple.
A great feast was prepared, the bride was seated beside her lover, he
took her hand and kissed her in presence of the assembled guests, and
she became his wife.
The ancient Persians considered matrimony so essential, that they
believed those who died single would infallibly be unhappy in another
world; for this reason, when a relation of either sex died unmarried,
they hired some person to be formally married to the deceased as soon
as possible.
It was considered a great misfortune to be childless. “Children,” said
the prophet Zerdhust, “are a bridge that reaches to paradise; and how
shall ye pass if he have provided no bridge? The angel shall ask every
soul, if he have provided children; if he answer, no, the soul that has
contributed so little to society shall himself be left desolate on the
banks of a river, where he shall see the fresh springs and blooming
fruits of paradise, but shall never be able to reach them.”
A boy was kept in the female apartments, and not permitted to see
his father, till his fifth year, in order that his parent might not
experience so much uneasiness in case he died before that period.
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