The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
When a Persian father has selected a family with which he wishes to
have his son connected, he sends an elderly female to ascertain the
girl’s personal endowments, and the probable consent of her parents
or guardians. If the report prove favorable, the bridegroom sends
messengers to explain his merits, and make a formal offer of marriage.
The heads of the family meet to make all arrangements concerning
presents, ornaments, dowry, &c.; and the papers are sealed and
witnessed before magistrates.
On the morning of the wedding, the bridegroom sends a train of mules
laden with presents to the bride, preceded by music, and followed by
numerous servants, bearing costly viands on silver trays, to be spread
before the inmates of her father’s house. The day is spent in mirth
and feasting. Toward evening, the bride veiled, in scarlet or crimson
silk, is mounted on a superbly caparisoned mule, preceded by music, and
followed by a long train of relatives and friends to the house of her
destined husband, who rides forth with a similar procession to meet
her. The female attendants conduct her to the apartments prepared for
her, and she is from that moment a lawful wife. The bridegroom prepares
a sumptuous feast for his friends and relatives, who generally keep up
the festivities for three days.
The jointure settled upon a wife varies according to the wealth of the
husband. If he is in middling circumstances, he merely bestows two
dresses, a ring, and a mirror; but he is likewise expected to supply
all the requisite furniture.
It is deemed an irretrievable disgrace for a bride to be sent back
after she has left her father’s house. Sometimes the bridegroom
promises a jointure beyond his means; and in these cases, curious
scenes sometimes take place. He shuts the door against the cavalcade,
and declares the girl shall not enter his dwelling, unless the jointure
be reduced. Under these circumstances he is generally able to make his
own terms.
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