The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
Women of the middling class are more occupied than the wives of
grandees, and therefore unavoidably have more freedom. They spin, sew,
embroider, superintend the house, keep account of expenses, pay the
servant’s wages, and see that proper care is taken of the horses. Sir
Robert Porter, speaking of this class of Persian females, says, “They
do all the laborious part of the household establishment; each having
her own especial department, such as baking the bread, cooking the
meat, drawing the water, &c. Though the latest espoused is usually
spared in these labors, and the best dressed, still the whole party
seem to remain in good humor. When their lord shows himself among
them, it is like a master coming into a herd of favorite animals.
They all rush forward, frisking about him, pleased with a caress, or
frisking still if they meet with a pat instead. The four wives of my
worthy host retire at sunset, and each taking her infant and cradle
to the roof of her division of the house, not forgetting the skin of
water she has brought from the well, deposits her babe in safety, and
suspends the water-case near her, on a tripod of sticks, in order that
the evaporation may cool it for next day’s use. Our communicative host
told me that to preserve amity among these women, he was accustomed,
like all husbands who valued peace, to divide his time and attention
equally and alternately among them. Indeed the law of Mohammed, though
it allows four wives, expressly stipulates that the first married shall
experience no diminution of wardrobe, or accustomed privileges, in
consequence of the introduction of a new bride into the family.
When women of the common classes leave their houses they scrupulously
conceal their faces with a veil woven like a fine net, or a cloak with
two holes just big enough for their eyes; but the neck is often less
carefully covered than the face. Like all oriental women, they are very
fond of perfumes and ornaments. Their clothing is usually chosen and
purchased for them, as we do for little children.
On the death of a husband, they lay aside all rich and showy apparel,
and assume the garb of mourning, which among the Persians is pale
brown. For months and months they pay daily visits to the grave,
watering it with tears, rending their garments, and tearing their hair.
The law allows widows to marry again, but they seldom take a second
husband. In many cases, the anniversary of the birthday of the deceased
is for years kept as a solemn festival by his family and friends.
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