The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
History
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The highest possible encouragement was given to matrimony. When the
people were numbered, the censors asked each citizen, “Upon your faith,
have you a wife?” and those who had none were subject to a fine. In the
tribunals, those who came to make oath were asked, “Upon your faith,
have you a horse? Have you a wife?” and unless they could answer these
questions in the affirmative, they were not allowed to give testimony.
Those who lived in celibacy could not succeed to an inheritance,
or legacy, except of their nearest relations, unless they married
within one hundred days after the death of the testator. Married men
were preferred to all public employments; and the prescribed age was
dispensed with in their favor, by taking off as many years as they had
legitimate children. They had distinguished places at the theatre and
the games, were exempted from guardianships, and other burthensome
offices.
But when the condition of the people required laws like these, it was
useless to make them. Mere external rewards are as feeble a barrier
against the tumult of the passions, as a bar of sand against a rushing
stream. The Roman knights loudly demanded that the edicts should be
revoked; and many, to avoid the penalties, went through the form of
marriage with mere infants. Augustus, to prevent this fraud, forbade
any one to contract a girl that was not at least ten years old, that
the wedding might be celebrated two years after. Metellus, the censor,
said to the people, “If it were possible for us to do without wives, we
should escape a very great evil; but it is ordained that we cannot live
very happily either with them or without them.”
Such was the diseased state of society, when Christianity came in with
its blessed influence, to purify the manners, and give the soul its
proper empire over the senses. Many women of the noblest and wealthiest
families, surrounded by the seductive allurements of worldly pleasure,
renounced them all, for the sake of the strength and consolation they
found in the words of Jesus. Undismayed by severe edicts against the
new religion, they appeared before the magistrates, and by pronouncing
the simple words, “I am a Christian,” calmly resigned themselves to
imprisonment, ignominy, and death. Taught by the maxims of the Gospel
that it was a duty to love and comfort each other, as members of the
same family, they devoted their lives to the relief of the sick, the
aged, and the destitute. Beautiful ladies, accustomed to all the
luxurious appendages of wealth, might be seen in the huts of poverty,
and the cells of disease, performing in the kindest manner the duties
of a careful nurse.
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