The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
Adams, “that the early example of Mrs. Hutchison, and the difficulties
in which the public exercise of her gifts involved the colony, had
established in the public mind a conviction of the danger that may
attend the meddling of women with abstruse points of doctrine; and
these, however they might confound the strongest intellects, were
nevertheless the favorite topics of thought and discussion in that
generation.”
While the sons of a family received every possible advantage compatible
with the means of the father, the daughter’s interest, as far as mental
culture was concerned, was generally ignored. To aid the mother in
manual household labor, and by self-denial and increased industry to
forward the welfare of the brothers, was the most exalted height to
which any woman aspired. To women there was then no career open, no
life-work to perform outside the narrow walls of home. Every idea of
self-culture was swallowed up in the wearying routine of practical life,
and what of knowledge they obtained, was from the society of the
learned, and the eagerness with which they treasured and considered the
conversations of others.
On the 26th of October, 1764, Abigail Smith was married to John Adams.
She was at the time twenty years old. The match, although a suitable one
in many respects, was not considered brilliant, since her ancestors were
among the most noted of the best class of their day, and he was the son
of a farmer of limited means, and as yet a lawyer without practice. Mrs.
Adams was the second of three daughters, whose characters were alike
strong and remarkable for their intellectual force. The fortunes of two
of them confined its influence to a sphere much more limited than that
which fell to the lot of Mrs. Adams. Mary, the eldest, was married in
1762 to Richard Cranch, an English emigrant, who subsequently became a
Judge of the Court of Common Pleas in Massachusetts. Elizabeth, the
youngest, was twice married; first to the Reverend John Shaw, minister
of Haverhill, and after his death, to the Reverend Mr. Peabody, of New
Hampshire. This anecdote is told in connection with the marriage of Mrs.
Adams. When her eldest sister was married, her father preached to his
people from the text, “And Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall
not be taken away from her.” The disapprobation to his second daughter’s
choice was due to the prejudice entertained against the profession of
the law. Mr. Adams, besides being a lawyer, was the son of a small
farmer of the middle class in Braintree, and was thought scarcely good
enough to match with the minister’s daughter, descended from a line of
ministers in the colony. Mr. Smith’s parishioners were outspoken in
their opposition, and he replied to them immediately, after the marriage
took place, in a sermon, in which he made pointed allusion to the
objection against lawyers. His text on this occasion was, “For John came
neither eating bread nor drinking wine, and ye say, He _hath a devil_.”
Mr.
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