The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881 — John Shaqi
The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
Separated from the young members of her own family, and never subjected
to the ordinary school routine, her imaginative faculties bade fair to
develop at the expense of her judgment, but the austere religion of her
ancestors, and the daily example of strict compliance to forms,
prevented the too great indulgence of fancy. She had many relations both
on the father’s and mother’s side, and with these she was upon as
intimate terms as circumstances would allow. The distance between the
homes of the young people was, however, too great, and the means of
their parents too narrow, to admit of very frequent personal
intercourse, the substitute for which was a rapid interchange of written
communication. “The women of the last century,” observes Mr. Charles
Francis Adams in his memoir of his grandmother, “were more remarkable
for their letter-writing propensities, than the novel-reading and more
pretending daughters of this era: their field was larger, and the
stirring events of the times made it an object of more interest. Now,
the close connection between all parts of this country, and rapid means
of transmitting intelligence through the medium of telegraphs and
newspapers, renders the slow process of writing letters unnecessary,
save in instances of private importance. The frugal habits of the
sparsely settled country afforded little material for the fashionable
chit-chat which forms so large a part of the social life of to-day, and
the limited education of woman was another drawback to the indulgence of
a pleasure in which they really excelled. Upon what, then, do we base
the assertion that they were remarkable for their habits of writing?
Even though self-taught, the young ladies of Massachusetts were
certainly readers, and their taste was not for the feeble and nerveless
sentiments, but was derived from the deepest wells of English
literature. Almost every house in the colony possessed some old
heir-looms in the shape of standard books, even if the number was
limited to the Bible and dictionary. Many, especially ministers, could
display relics of their English ancestors’ intelligence in the libraries
handed down to them, and the study of their contents was evident in many
of the grave correspondences of that early time.” To learning, in the
ordinary sense of that term, she could make no claim. She did not enjoy
an opportunity to acquire even such as there might have been, for the
delicate state of her health forbade the idea of sending her away from
home to obtain them. In speaking of her deficiencies, the year before
her death, she says: “My early education did not partake of the abundant
opportunity which the present day offers, and which even our common
country schools now afford. _I never was sent to any school_, I was
always sick.” Although Massachusetts ranked then, as it does now, first
in point of educational facilities, it is certainly remarkable that its
women received such entire neglect. “It is not impossible,” says Mr.
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