Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
We all know the families who have more turkeys at Christmas than members.
We still have churches and sewing schools in the same neighborhood, giving
their Christmas entertainments at different hours and at different dates,
to suit the convenience of those who attend both and profit thereby. We
even have different entertainments given for different branches of work in
the same church at different hours. We succeeded in impressing one boy with
the idea that what he received at the various organizations maintained for
his profit was "Christmas loot," and that he was clever at getting more
than his share. We have become accustomed to conducting an exchange after
our Christmas entertainments, because in giving we have, unfortunately,
duplicated the gifts received elsewhere. Mollie finds herself with two
dolls and no bed, and Katie has two beds and no doll, and Alice has two
sets of dishes and no table. Like fate has attended the gifts to the boys.
We, as a result, enact the rôle of patient, sweet generosity and
redistribute gifts.
We know that comparisons are made as to which church, sewing school or club
is the one to give the major portion of the coming year's attendance. But
all this will disappear as rapidly as sectarianism and competition between
churches and in philanthropic effort disappear. Competition created it;
coöperation will dispel it, because all will come to a higher conception of
the relations of efforts toward improvement. Then the "profit" of church
and Sunday-school attendance will not be measured by the "things"
distributed.
Nothing marks the growth of public intelligence more than the federations,
and the systems that have grown out of the knowledge of the injury done the
poor by misplaced generosity. Sometimes the children of the poor seem
uncanny in the knowledge they possess of how to use the public and private
charities.
A girl of seventeen gave astonishing evidence of this in a family crisis.
She was a member of a working-girls' club; quiet, studious, reserved. She
was always one of the poorest dressed girls in the club. Her devotion to
those classes which she joined and attended regularly attracted the
attention and admiration of the club directors. Discovering that her dress
was in part responsible for the treatment accorded her by two or three
members, it was decided to make it possible for her to make a better
appearance. She had shown qualities which, if allowed free play, would make
her an influential member of the club.
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