From their earliest years the children were drilled in the virtue of
economy. The references to the altering and letting-down of frocks,
the calculation of pence for ribbon or frill, the careful computation
of the length of time a pair of boots might be expected to last,—all
these form instructive reading when one bears in mind the social
position of the family and the large sums of money which the parents
habitually gave away.
Sister Carry writes with characteristic calm and reasonableness:
“13 Sussex Square,
January 11th.
DEAR SOPHY,
I suppose probabilities are now in favour of the Christmas tree. I
don’t think it need do Mummy much harm, supposing affairs are
conducted with very unusual prudence and quietness. We shall defer
buying any ready-made-sweetmeat-ornaments (this is an 8-syllabled
compound word) until you come home, and then I think Mummy will quite
like that we should get them without her presence. I also think it
will be very desirable (if possible) that we should dress up the tree
without troubling her much; but I don’t know exactly how far we should
be up to it. However, I think the most important points of all are
that a certain friend of ours should endeavour to live in, and diffuse
around her, a certain atmosphere of peace and calmness; and that the
tree should be quite ready in very good time, so that there should be
no bustle or worry about it towards the last.... I mean to try to
provide (with pecuniary assistance from Mummy) some supply of purses,
penwipers and markers for the tree; I think a couple of cut markers
such as you gave Daddy the other day, on broad ribbon, would be very
good; of course I mean _them_ to be made by you. I suppose I shall
probably have a letter from you tomorrow or Saturday; I consider I
ought to have had one. With best love, I am, dear Sophy,
Your very affectionate sister,
C. A. JEX-BLAKE.”
Presumably the little festival took place in due course, but there is no
further reference to it among the papers. The strain of loving parental
homilies continues.
“Bear in mind that _all_ our powers and faculties are perverted by the
fall, but my child cannot be rid of her responsibility; if you say you
cannot pray,—that is at once a subject for prayer. Down on your knees
and tell God so.”
“I _exceedingly_ like a letter from you, and bustle down a little
earlier on Tuesday morning that I may have time to enjoy it before
breakfast.... Cousins Kate and Elinor Jex-Blake say they do not at all
delight in Mathematics, they are sorry to say.”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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