The Little Review, September 1914 (Vol. 1, No. 6)Various
History
The Little Review, September 1914 (Vol. 1, No. 6)
Various
Literature, Modern -- 20th century -- Periodicals
I feel impelled to reply to your article entitled _The Renaissance of
Parenthood_. I wonder what could have been the home-life of such a girl
as you quote from, that she should write that kind of a letter. Shaw
says, "there is nothing so futile or so stupid as to try to control your
children." Your opinion that Shaw's ideas are "glorious" shows at once
that you have only touched the surface of what motherhood is. Can you
honestly believe that a parent is doing his duty if he allows a child to
rush in front of a moving automobile attracted by the bright lights,
knowing nothing of the danger ahead--which certainly would mean death if
the child had its own way? Irrespective of what Shaw or Ellen Key write,
it is the parents' absolute duty to train and educate a child until he
is capable of using his own reasoning powers. And, too, there is but one
way. Principle and Truth with Love and Charity are the only way. Let me
here quote from your article on Emma Goldman. If you do not agree with
Emma Goldman, you say in effect, let us at least be broadminded and see
both sides. But are you doing this? From my point of view, you seem to
take the side only of free thinking, and, as you call it, independent
thought. There is no independent thought, except doing right. I can see
your point of view. As we look about us among the people of the social
world, many are indeed selling their children in marriage to some man
for the petty consideration of high social position and money. Many
times when an engagement is announced the first question is how well off
is the man, instead of what are his principles and is he worthy of the
girl. These poor children are indeed the offspring of foolish parents,
and are to be pitied. If as they advance on life's highway they are
given to see what principle means, then is it right to separate and go
their own way? We all must develop the spiritual within; but to break
loose from home ties, as this girl seems to desire, from selfishness
alone, will lead to a worse death than that of being crushed by the
automobile. I have admitted that to sell a child in wedlock to a man
whose only attraction is a fat bank account and social position is crime
of the blackest. But taking the other course is equally as bad, for
passionate love is always selfish and soon burns out. Let us consider
for one moment a child born out of wedlock. As I understand it,
so-called free thinkers consider this right. They disregard the law, and
honestly think they have done a fine thing. "All for love and the world
well lost." A daughter is born, and from some remote ancestor she
inherits a love of the conventional. Can you picture to yourself what
the suffering would be to see the daughter you love an outcast always
from the things she cares for through what you call the grand
passion--nothing more or less than the supreme selfishness of two human
beings, no matter what you and the girl you are privileged to quote from
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account