We enter the world of humanity, which is the realm of morality, through
the family. Here we open our eyes to the light, and here we have the
first intimations of truth, which is provision for the intellect, and of
righteousness, which is provision for the will. The truth of the family
is the sum of the relations which subsist among the members of it. The
family consists, we will say, of father and mother, and children. Here
is a man and a woman, then, bound together by the relation of marriage.
The children are related to the parents as offspring. The children are
related to one another as brothers and sisters. Altogether they are
one and they are many. There is unity and there is difference. In the
relations implied in the names husband and wife, father and mother,
parents and children, brothers and sisters, we have the truth of the
family. We know the family and can only know the family through these
relations. Take the relations away, and you take the family away. There
cannot be a husband without a wife, a father without a mother, parents
without children, and children without a father and a mother. Abiding in
these relations, which make up the truth of the family, wrapt up with
them and growing out of them, are the laws of right which the will is
to obey. The relation of marriage is accompanied by certain obligations
and duties which husband and wife are to observe. These obligations
and duties are divine laws, because marriage is a divine relation. The
relations involved in the term parents, are attended by certain necessary
laws the father and the mother are to observe with reference to children.
The names of child, brother, sister, imply relations that in turn imply
laws the child is to follow with reference to parents, and brothers and
sisters are to regard with reference to one another. These laws, which
grow out of the relations which constitute the family, are not arbitrary,
artificial, or accidental. They have not been formed by the opinions of
men, nor formulated in the legislative assemblies of men. Legislative
bodies have, perhaps, confirmed them and reproduced them in statutes,
but this was not to create, but to transcribe what was already present.
The laws with reference to which the members of a family find themselves
placed are as essential and constitutional as the laws governing natural
objects, which we define when we say bodies attract each other in
proportion to their mass and inversely as the squares of their distance.
These are subtle and invisible principles which cannot be read out of
rocks and logs and moons and suns. Displace rocks and logs and suns and
moons, and the apparent power of these laws would not be seen, but upon
the appearance of the natural objects, they would be immediately grasped
and dominated by the power of the laws.
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