The man in the street: Papers on American topics — John Shaqi
The man in the street: Papers on American topicsNicholson, Meredith
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The man in the street: Papers on American topics
Nicholson, Meredith
American essays -- 20th century
Breakfast as a social medium has never flourished in America, chiefly
because of our lack of leisure. Where recognized at all it is thrown
into the middle of the day where it becomes an anomaly, an impudent
intrusion. A breakfast that is a luncheon is not a breakfast, but a
concession to the Philistines. Once, with considerable difficulty,
I persuaded a lady of my acquaintance to undertake to popularize
breakfast by asking a company, few and fit, for eight o’clock. The
first party was delightful, and the second, moved along to nine, was
equally successful. But the hostess was so pleased with her success
that she increased the number of guests to a dozen and then to fifteen,
and advanced the hour to noon, with the result that the felicity of the
earlier hours was lost. One must have a concrete programme to be of
service in these reforms, and I shall say quite fearlessly that a round
table set for six is the ideal arrangement.
A breakfast must be planned with greatest care. It should never be
resorted to as a means of paying social debts, but arranged with
the utmost independence. Where a wife is a desirable guest and the
husband is not, there is no reason why a plate should be wasted. On
the other hand, I should as rigidly exclude the wife who is socially
a non-conductor. The talk at a breakfast table must be spirited, and
it will not be otherwise if the company is well chosen. It’s an absurd
idea that candle-light is essential to sociability and that wit will
not sparkle in the early morning. Some of the best talk I ever listened
to has been at breakfast tables, where the guests conversed freely
under the inspiration of a mounting sun. Doctor Holmes clearly believed
the breakfast hour appropriate for the disclosure of the sprightliest
philosophy.
An American novelist once explained that he did his writing in the
afternoon because he couldn’t make love in the morning. Not make love
in the morning! The thought is barbarous. Morning is of sentiment
all compact. Morning to the lover who possesses a soul is washed
with Olympian dews. The world is all before him where to choose and
his heart is his only guide. Love is not love that fears the morning
light.... There was a house by the sea, whence a girl used to dart
forth every morning for a run over the rocks. We used to watch her
from our windows, admiring the lightness of her step, her unconscious
grace as she was silhouetted on some high point of the shore against
the blue of sea and sky. It was to think of him, her lover, in the free
sanctuary of the new, clean day that she ran that morning race with
her own spirits. And he, perhaps knowing that she was thus preparing
herself for their first meeting, would fly after her, and they would
come running back, hand in hand, and appear with glowing cheeks and
shining eyes at the breakfast table, to communicate to the rest of us
the joy of youth.
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