“King Œdipus, who has struck his father, Laius, dead and has married
his mother, Jocasta, is nothing,” says Freud,[66] “but the realized
wish of our childhood.... His fate moves us only for the reason that
it might have been ours, for the oracle has put the same curse upon us
... as upon him.” He adds that, unless we have become psycho-neurotics,
we have since “succeeded ... in withdrawing our sexual impulses from
our mothers and in forgetting our jealousy of our fathers,”--and
presumably we have withdrawn, too, from the cousins, aunts, godparents
and teachers listed by Jung. If these impulses have found their
way into the unconscious, however, they must have become eternal.
Psycho-analysis drags them into consciousness, not to kill them but to
give them a transfer. The patient, it is said, always falls in love
with the operator as a half-way step on the road to cure. But in regard
to “falling in love with one member of the parental couple and hatred
of the other,” Freud does not think that “psycho-neurotics are ...
sharply distinguished from ordinary human beings.”[67] The only way to
preserve normality, then, without calling in the doctor, would be never
to lose consciousness of our original polymorphus perversities.
In such a case, how is a transfer to be brought about? Not by
discipline, evidently. Considering the dire horrors said to lie in the
wake of any attempt to thwart the perversities in question, the natural
conclusion is that children should just grow, like Topsy, without
having to suffer the stern and perilous ordeal of being brought up. And
does not such a scheme leave perversity in control?
Certainly the effect of the study of Freudianism everywhere has been
to make parents afraid of resorting to corrective measures when their
children are “naughty.” A stern word, let alone a sound spanking, may
(according to the Freudian theory) cause a suppression of desire, a
thrusting of a native impulse into the Sheol of the lower psychic
locality, “where ... wishes ... recall the legendary Titans who from
time immemorial have borne the ponderous mountains which were once
rolled upon them by the victorious gods, and which even now quiver from
time to time from the convulsions of their mighty limbs.”[68]
Must one, then, totally abstain from mountain-rolling for fear of
earthquakes? A boy’s “libido” is first excited by his mother, so that
he wants to murder his father because the fellow is this woman’s
husband and the boy would like to be her husband himself. Is this to
go on? And of the two ways out of the situation, which shall we chose?
Let the boy murder the father? Or shall we let him marry the mother?
It seems to be a Hobson’s choice. We do not want to run the risk of
creating a “complex” by harshly thwarting either of these amiable
desires, for a complex, Freud assures us, may produce psycho-neurotic
symptoms ranging all the way from a mild hysterical excitement to
paralysis, blindness and homicidal mania.
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