The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cureBousfield, Paul
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The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cure
Bousfield, Paul
Mental healing; Psychoanalysis
What we are attempting to do now is to substitute directive thought
and directive aims, aims possible of attainment, for phantasy thoughts
and impossible aims. Most people will find on self-examination that
their aims are by no means clearly defined; they have an object in
life, but it is vague in outline, and ill-defined; it is often only
a question of getting somehow through life, with enough food to eat,
and sufficient phantasy thought to keep them from boredom. This again,
is especially the case with some women, whose household duties require
but little directive thought, since they are daily repetitions of the
same thing. Dusting a room is a habit which becomes pleasanter if
accompanied by phantasy thinking; whereas, had that woman some definite
aim, apart from the habit of house-cleaning, it would be possible to
accompany the room-dusting with directive thought which revolved round
the aim in question, and this would very much add to the pleasure and
efficiency of the individual’s life. If a person, on self-examination,
finds that his aims are not clearly defined, or are in conflict with
one another, or, on the other hand, that his aims or thoughts are in
part phantasy and impossible of fulfilment, that person should at once
deliberately remould and re-state his aims, so that they become:
(a) clearly defined,
(b) clearly possible.
Moreover, the aims should be of two kinds:
(1) immediate,
(2) remote.
The remote aim is the ideal for which he is striving; and however high
that ideal be, it should be of a kind possible of fulfilment, not
necessarily in the lifetime of the individual, in all cases, for he may
be working for something of which he does not expect fulfilment for
even hundreds of years, yet it may be perfectly legitimately termed a
real aim, as opposed to a phantastic one.
_Now, the first thing which the individual should bear in mind is that
an immediate aim should always be in harmony with the remote aim._ Let
it also be borne in mind that when we state that the aim should be
clearly possible, we do not only mean that the aims should be possible
from a point of view of external environment and circumstances, but
also having regard to the patient’s own intelligence, will-power,
education, and physical health--in other words possible in the case of
this particular individual.
Now let us consider in detail the further course to be pursued by the
person who proposes to treat himself on these lines. Let him take
pencil and paper and write out in the fullest of details a list of
his aims, great and small, in the first place, without any reference
to their bearing upon one another, or any attempt at classification,
keeping in mind that by aims in life, we mean wishes which he hopes
will be fulfilled. Let him think of every conceivable wish in his mind,
and write it down, whether phantastic in nature, or trivial, or whether
both possible and important.
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