The Social Emergency: Studies in Sex Hygiene and Morals
Science
The Social Emergency: Studies in Sex Hygiene and Morals
Sex instruction
I do not desire to convey the idea that our boy was a wicked boy. He
was not. He was just the average type of what we call the "upper
middle-class" boy. He was merely tuned to the low moral tone of the
city. Vice to him was not a monster of hideous mien. He had seen it
from childhood.... I knew that a greater part of his ideas on
patriotism, on women, on the sanctity of marriage were but reflections
of views he had heard expressed, often tritely and cleverly, and
cynicism born of hearing such things flaunted over the footlights or
dished out as "clever" in the newspapers.
In the father's earnest efforts to understand the remedy for the
situation, he is reminded of his own experience when he began life in the
city. He continues:--
The boy's words awakened memories. I recalled the sense of shocked and
shamed decency I felt when first I came to the city, a boy almost, and
fresh from the country; how I tossed in my bed trying to see as right
things that every one in the city appeared to accept as a matter of
course, but that, from earliest boyhood I had been taught to regard as
wicked. I could not for many months become accustomed to seeing
immodestly dressed women on or off the stage, or to hearing
half-veiled indecency flaunted from the stage, blazoned in the
newspapers, or used even in ordinary conversation. I could not get
used to ... scenes and actions directly forbidden as unforgivable at
home.[46]
We are horrified by certain vices, the public now and then cries out
against specific manifestations of lust, and sometimes it is with
difficulty that mobs are restrained from violence But about much of our
immorality there is an attractiveness that has made it acceptable and even
wins for it applause. The influence is there, and it is insidiously and
perniciously working itself into the minds of our boys Many commercialized
amusements now exploit the sex impulse. It is impossible to measure the
effects of such exploitation.
There are brighter pictures. Those who have intimate relation with
hundreds of boys learn to admire the American boy for his earnest desire
to be clean and strong and for his attitude toward the sacred things of
life. If we give the boy positive help, we may expect him to grow into
noble manhood. We would not remove him from all the evil in the world, but
we may expect a minimum of harm as a result of contact with evil. We may
not expect to keep him away from all foul talk; but we may make foul talk
disgust rather than attract him. The American boy is normally clean. If we
will do our part, he will respond.
William Holabird represents a type which may well be taken as an example
in sex education.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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