But now, on renewing his attentions, he found that her mother had no
objections. There was, however, one serious difficulty, for Mr. Rogers,
although he had deserted her, was not known to be dead, and divorces
were but little thought of at that time. Franklin naturally did not want
to add bigamy to his other youthful offences, and it would also have
required a revision of his liturgy and code. Rogers had, moreover, left
debts which Franklin feared he might be expected to pay, and he had had
enough of that sort of thing. “We ventured, however,” he says, “over all
these difficulties, and I took her to wife September 1, 1730.” None of
the inconveniences happened, for neither Rogers nor his debts ever
turned up.
[Illustration: WILLIAM TEMPLE FRANKLIN]
Franklin’s detractors have always insisted that no marriage ceremony was
performed and that he was never legally married. There is no record of
such a marriage in Christ Church, of which Mrs. Rogers was a member, and
the phrase used, “took her to wife,” is supposed to show that they
simply lived together, fearing a regular ceremony, which, if Rogers was
alive, would convict them of bigamy. The absence of any record of a
ceremony is, however, not necessarily conclusive that there was no
ceremony of any kind; and the question is not now of serious importance,
for they intended marriage, always regarded themselves as man and wife,
and, in any event, it was a common-law marriage. Their children were
baptized in Christ Church as legitimate children, and in a deed executed
three or four years after 1730 they are spoken of as husband and wife.
A few months after the marriage his illegitimate son William was born,
and Mr. Bigelow has made the extraordinary statement, “William may
therefore be said to have been born in wedlock, though he was not
reputed to be the son of Mrs. Franklin.”[12] This is certainly an
enlarged idea of the possibilities of wedlock, and on such a principle
marriage to one woman would legitimatize the man’s illegitimate
offspring by all others. It is difficult to understand the meaning of
such a statement, unless it is an indirect way of suggesting that
William was the son of Mrs. Franklin; but of this there is no evidence.
Franklin always considered his neglect of Miss Read after he had
observed her affection for him one of the errors of his life. He had
almost forgotten her while in London, and after he returned appears to
have shown her no attention, until, by the failure of the match Mrs.
Godfrey had arranged for him, he was driven to the determination to
marry some one. He believed that he had largely corrected this error by
marrying her. “She proved a good and faithful helpmate,” he says;
“assisted me much by attending the shop; we throve together, and have
ever mutually endeavored to make each other happy.” She died in 1774,
while Franklin was in England.
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