It was not the woman movement but the religious movement, beginning
among the Northern peoples almost simultaneously with it, called in
Sweden “Läseri” (“Reading”) that was the first spiritual emancipation
for the old or young unmarried girls—likewise for wives who longed for a
deeper content. Because they took seriously the Bible doctrine that one
should disregard the commands of the family in order to follow Christ,
the home gradually became accustomed to one of the feminine members’
going her own way. Often amid great struggles. For the “Reader” was more
or less considered as insane; the father was ashamed of her, the mother
mourned over her, the brothers laughed at her. But nothing could hinder
those strong in their faith from following the inner voice. And so these
women, without knowing it themselves, were a bridge to that emancipation
of women to which they themselves later—Bible in hand—were often an
obstacle.
* * * * *
The movement _could_ not however be prevented. And now—how is it now in
the family? Already the ten-year-old talks about what she is sometime
going to be. Now, the sisters go with the brothers to school or to the
academy and share their intellectual interests as well as their life of
sport. Now, the fathers and mothers sit at home often alone, for the
daughters belong to that host of self-supporting girls who can gratify
the parents by short visits only. Alas, these visits are not always an
unclouded joy. There are collisions between the old and the young often
over seeming bagatelles. But a feather shows which way the wind blows
and the parents observe that, in the spiritual being of the daughter,
the wind blows from an entirely different direction from theirs. The
daughter, on the other hand, thinks that perfect calm prevails in the
being of her parents; she wishes to raise the dust. The mother pleads
her cause in dry and offended manner, the daughter in superior and
impetuous words. Accustomed to her freedom, she encounters again at home
control over her commissions and omissions, attempts upon her privacy
from which she had been freed by leaving home. And they separate again
each with a sigh that they “have had so little of one another.” In other
cases—when the parents have followed the times and the daughters
understand that not only children but also parents must be educated with
tenderness—then the visits to the parents’ home become on both sides
elevating episodes in their lives. The daughters repose in the parental
tenderness, which they have only now learned to value when they compare
it with their customary loneliness. The parents confide to the daughter
their cares which she sometimes can effectively lighten, and they revive
with her spiritual interests which they themselves had to lay aside.
Through her own working life the daughter has gained an entirely new
respect for her parents. Through her independence of parental authority
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