The Young Man's GuideAlcott, William A. (William Andrus)
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The Young Man's Guide
Alcott, William A. (William Andrus)
Conduct of life; Young men
[7] These statements may seem to require a little qualification.
There are _two sorts_ of _busy_ men. One sort are busy, as the
result of _benevolent purpose_. These are often among the best of
mankind; and though always _busy_ in carrying out their plans,
they find time to perform a thousand little acts of goodness,
notwithstanding.--It has, indeed, been sometimes said, that when
a great public enterprise is about to be undertaken, which
requires the aid of individual contributions, either of time or
money, those who are most busy, and from whom we might naturally
expect the least, often do the _most_. It is also said that men
of business have the most leisure; and it sometimes seems to be
true, where they methodize their plans properly. These maxims,
however, apply with the most force to men devoted to a higher
purpose than the worship of this world--men who live for God,
and the good of his universe, generally.
There are also two sorts of _rich_ men. Some men may have
property in their hands to an immense amount, without possessing
a worldly spirit. The _rich_ man referred to above, is of another
sort. He is the man who '_gets all he can_, and _keeps_ all he
can _get_.' This is probably the gospel definition of the term,
a _rich man_, who, it is said, can no more enter a world of
spiritual enjoyment than a camel or a cable can go through 'the
eye of a needle.'
SECTION XII. _Of desiring the good opinion of others._
A young man is not far from ruin, when he can say, without blushing,
_I don't care what others think of me_. To be insensible to public
opinion, or to the estimation in which we are held by others, by no
means indicates a good and generous spirit.
But to have a due regard to public opinion is one thing, and to make
that opinion the principal rule of action, quite another. There is no
greater weakness than that of letting our happiness depend _too much_
upon the opinion of others. Other people lie under such disadvantages
for coming at our true characters, and are so often misled by prejudice
for or against us, that if our own conscience condemns us, their
approbation can give us little consolation. On the other hand, if we
are sure we acted from honest motives, and with a reference to proper
ends, it is of little consequence if the world should happen to find
fault. Mankind, for the most part, are so much governed by fancy, that
what will win their hearts to-day, will disgust them to-morrow; and he
who undertakes to please every body at all times, places, and
circumstances, will never be in want of employment.
A wise man, when he hears of reflections made upon him, will consider
whether they are _just_. If they are, he will correct the faults in
question, with as much cheerfulness as if they had been suggested by
his dearest friend.
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