Analyze your spiritual account. Is your religious belief a sham or a
conviction? Do you sing on Sunday, "We shall know each other there," or
do you make it a point to know and love your brother here, seven days a
week?
[Sidenote: Balancing the Statement.]
Be fair in your inventory. Write down the facts in the two columns
designated "good" and "bad," then go over the list and put a red danger
flag on the bad. Keep the list until next inventory and see whether you
have made a gain or loss in your net moral standing.
Don't read this and say, "A good idea." Do the thing literally.
Take a clean sheet of paper and write your personal assets and
liabilities down in the two columns marked "good" and "bad."
If this inventory doesn't help, then you may call me a false prophet.
I know the plan is a good one. I know it will help you. If it helps you,
you will thank me. There can be no harm in trying, because it's a
worth-while thing to test.
The business man who never takes inventory is likely to bump some day.
46.
The ego is in us. It is a good thing to have, but egotism needs the soft
pedal when we speak or do things.
Many people are unconscious of their egotism, yet their conversation
carries the suggestion, "Even I, who am superior to the herd, would do
this or that."
[Sidenote: The Personal Pronoun.]
For instance, two persons were arguing about the merits of an
inexpensive automobile. Parenthetically, I may say that one belonged to
the Ford class, and the other to the can't-afford class. A can't-afford
snob came to the rescue of the Ford champion by saying, "That's a good
car; why, I wouldn't mind owning one of them myself," and he beamed at
the party with the consciousness of having settled the matter and
removed the stigma from the Ford car.
This egotism often crops out when one shows a group picture in which he
appears. He doesn't wait for you to find him; he pokes his arm over your
shoulder and says, "That's me."
To each of us, in the very nature of things, the "I" is the center of
our world. We see things always through our I's.
If we wish to get along without friction, we must remember that the
other fellow has his I's also, and when we try to make him see things
through out I's, it makes trouble.
[Sidenote: Good Breeding.]
The hall mark of education, refinement and character, in the broad
sense, is the ability to exclude the personal so far as possible from
our conversation. And be big enough to grant to others their undoubted
right to see and think from their own standpoint.
Argument develops egotism more than almost anything else will.
How often have you convinced another in an argument?
How often have you been convinced in an argument?
The world is big; there are millions of others in it, and our job is a
big one if we 'tend pretty well to our own knittin'.
47.
Four hundred and twenty-six years ago Christopher Columbus landed on an
island which he thought was India.
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