Travels in Kordofan : $b Embracing a description of that province of Egypt, and of some of the bordering countries, with a review of the present state of the commerce in those countries, of the habits and customs of the inhabitants, as also an account of the slave hunts taking place under the government of Mehemed AliPallme, Ignaz
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Travels in Kordofan : $b Embracing a description of that province of Egypt, and of some of the bordering countries, with a review of the present state of the commerce in those countries, of the habits and customs of the inhabitants, as also an account of the slave hunts taking place under the government of Mehemed Ali
Pallme, Ignaz
Kordofan (Sudan : Province) -- Description and travel; Nile River; Sudan -- Description and travel
The marriage portion consists either in money, oxen, sheep, goats,
or other articles of domestic economy, and is at the same time the
property of the woman, although she may be shortly divorced from
her husband. Marriages are contracted with very little ceremony,
for as soon as the bridegroom has agreed with the father of the
bride on the bargain, he takes the woman of his choice home, hews
the rahat, or fringed virginal girdle with a knife in innumerable
pieces, covers her with a melayeh as a sign that she is now his
wife, and the ceremony thus terminates. The nearest neighbours are
at the most invited to a dinner; merissa is served up, and the whole
affair is concluded with the customary dances. If the bride belong
to one of the tribes who practise circumcision, she is certainly
forced to subject herself to a fresh operation twenty days before
her marriage. When a woman is ill-treated by her husband, or there
exists any other cogent reason, she requests to be divorced from him,
and the separation is effected without the slightest difficulty. She
takes her marriage portion, and if there be children, the girls
away with her, whilst the boys remain with the father. A separation
is, however, frequently insisted upon without any good cause,
for if the husband does not make his wife a sufficient allowance
of telka,[33] she may sue for a divorce. Many men separate from
their wives when they begin to age, as they generally do after
the birth of the second child, and marry a second time with a
young girl. To these cast-off wives a tukkoli is then accorded,
and a maintenance sufficient to keep them, consisting generally
of twenty paras, little more than three halfpence daily. The rich
of course are only able to follow this custom, one man, however,
scarcely ever has more than two wives in lawful wedlock; but every
one keeps a number of female slaves as concubines, especially when
his wives begin to grow old. They do not pay much attention to
those clauses in matrimony, prescribed by the mahommedan religion,
and to which the Moslemins rigidly adhere. The birth of a child
is attended with little or no festivity, and the husband pays but
slight attention to his wife during this critical period, for every
one knows that labours are mostly natural, and terminate quickly
and successfully. A midwife and an elderly relation at the utmost
are present in the hut with the parturient woman, and when the
child is born, a drink, consisting of soda, dried dates, and milk,
which is very cooling, or water only, is offered to the mother. On
the second, frequently even on the first day, the woman leaves her
bed and goes about her ordinary occupations. Parents are very fond
of their children, and are never known to beat them for any error
they may have committed. The care and education of the young is left
entirely to the mother; until they have attained a more mature age,
the father troubles himself but little about his children. When
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