All through my married life I have been attentive to my wife and in any
room of our mortgaged home you can see many tokens of affection that she
has received. I have endeavored to lighten her domestic burden and
almost every Monday morning for the past twelve years I have been the
propeller at the washing machine. Hundred of times I have arisen between
the hours of three and four and wended my way to the family kitchen and
waded in on the soiled linen. I never sneaked out the back way to avoid
using the tea towel on waiting dishes. I can use the broom, duster and
make the beds. I can scrub, polish the stove, cook the steak, and
perform almost the entire category of domestic needs; but when it comes
to baking I would rather face the cannon’s mouth (a silent one like in
the city park in Denver) and die like a martyr. I have often acted as
maid. I recall once when I was a maid my wife was bed fast for three
weeks. We lived in a strong church town, somewhere near eighty per cent,
it seemed nearly all were Christians but during dearie’s sickness there
was not a single Christian woman or suffragist came to see her, offered
her services, or was in any way interested. I am sorry this happened in
this broad land of boasted Christianity and civilization. Some of these
same Christian ladies never failed to appear when the dues for foreign
missions were bordering on delinquency or when some rations were needed
for a church spread.
I believe in doing good and giving cheer. You can always notice a gleam
of pleasure in your wife’s face when you give her a box of candy, a
dress, a dish, or some little token, and how she clings to the missiles
of love that you may have penned on scraps of paper, chunks of wood and
other things. They always speak for something I think meritable. I think
the pathway of dearie can be made more cheerful if she is remembered
daily and not all in one chunk at Christmas time, and then let her wait
for another twelve months. I never feared I would kiss my wife too much.
I kiss her more now than when I courted her and they are just as sweet
as ever. It helps to keep the love light in her eye.
I have three fine children. I am not conceited about them; other people
say they are good. I have done my best to raise them well. Two of them
are in the County High School, the eldest a girl of sweet sixteen and
the other a noisy boy of fourteen. The remaining one is a baby of two
and one-half years. I must leave these three children and dearie and
look for employment. You can realize how pleasant it is to be separated
from them. How sad it is to kiss dearie and the others good bye and have
the many cute sayings of a strongly attached baby ringing in your ears,
not only through the dreary, lonesome days but long after the shadows
fall.
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