In accordance with their mother's policy, they were waiting for
something to turn up--waiting, in utter uncertainty, and with dubious
prospects, to achieve by marriage the security and competence which
they must not work for, or they would utterly lose caste in the old
social world in which they had lived.
Be not too hasty in condemning Mrs. Allen, my reader, for you may, at
the same time, condemn yourself. Have you no part in sustaining that
public sentiment which turns the cold shoulder of society toward the
woman who works? Many are growing rich every year, but more are
growing poor. What does the "best society," in the world's estimation,
say to the daughters in these families?
"Keep your little hands white, my dears, as long as you can, because
as soon as the traces of toil are seen on them you become a working-woman, and our daughters can't associate with you, and our sons can't
think of you, that is for wives. No other than little and white hands
can enter our heaven."
So multitudes struggle to keep their hands white, though thereby the
risk that their souls will become stained and black increases daily. A
host of fair girls find their way every year to darker stains than
ever labor left, because they know how coldly society will ignore them
the moment they enlist in the army of honest workers. But you,
respectable men and women in your safe pleasant homes, to the extent
that you hold and sustain this false sentiment, to the extent that you
make the paths of labor hard and thorny, and darken them from the
approving smile of the world, you are guilty of these girls' ruin.
Christian matron, with your husband one of the pillars of church and
state, do you shrink with disgust from that poor creature who comes
flaunting down Broadway? None but the white-handed enter your parlors,
and the men (?) who are hunting such poor girls to perdition will sit
on the sofa with your daughters this evening. Be not too confident.
Your child, or one in whom your blood flows at a little later remove,
may stand just where honor to toil would save, but the practical
dishonoring of it, which you sustain, eventually blot out the light of
earth and heaven.
Mrs. Allen knew that even if her daughters commenced teaching, which,
with all the thousands spent on their education, they were incapable
of doing, their old sphere on Fifth Avenue would be as unapproachable
as the pearly gates, between which and the lost a "great gulf is
fixed."
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