It would be a mistake, however, to suppose that the great Athenians
were without the sympathy and influence of educated women; indeed,
it may be safely said that no great things in art or literature have
ever been done without this inspiration. The ignorance of the Attic
woman had its natural protest, though it did not come from an orthodox
source. Respectability was on the side of servitude. It had a dull
time, but it was decorous, and consoled itself, as it has often done
since, with the reflection that dullness was its natural lot. No doubt
it took pride in its nothingness, and looked with haughty disdain upon
the clever foreign women who were free to do as they chose. Fashion is
imperious, not to say cruel, and even the Chinese lady hobbles along on
her distorted feet with a happy consciousness of distinction that amply
repays her for all her suffering.
But social conventions had small weight with the foreign hetæræ or
companions, who had no legal rights, and no caste to lose. The real
power of women was in their hands. They were intelligent, often
gifted, and the better class had refined and graceful manners, which
the Athenian wives evidently had not. It was said of them that they
were delicate at table, and not like the native women, who “stuffed
their cheeks, and tore off the meat.” They were also noted for wit and
_esprit_, a quality of volatilized intellect that has always had
great social charm. These advanced women of the day, who cast into the
shade their illiterate sisters, monopolized both attention and honors.
Men praised the good women who stayed at home and looked after their
families, but sought the society of clever ones who did neither of
these fine things. With curious inconsistency, they found the culture
which was reprehensible and out of the proper order of nature in their
wives and daughters so charming in other women as to merit the highest
distinction. Poets sang of them, artists immortalized them, statesmen
and philosophers paid court to them.
’T is not for nothing that where’er we go
We find a temple of hetæræ there,
But nowhere one to any wedded wife,
says the poet.
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