Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
Strange as it may sound, some of the happiest hours I have ever
known have been spent within the precincts of a convent, while of
the friendships which have been a joy in my life, none has made me
prouder than that of Sister Annunciata. It may appear curious for a
man-of-the-world to count a nun among his friends, but no one who has
not been privileged to enjoy it, can understand the pure solace of
conversing familiarly with a woman who, having renounced the world for
what she deems a higher purpose of life, lives entirely apart from
our every-day existence, and has no intercourse with it save through
the ingenuous medium of young girls’ gossip. For Sister Annunciata
belongs to one of the educational orders of sisterhood, and, though
she has taken solemn vows for life, and may never go beyond the
boundaries of the convent grounds, or again come in contact with the
passions and ambitions inseparable from the struggle for life, she
yet has a fruitful field of affection among the convent pupils, and
thus she keeps her human sympathies in constant activity. Moreover,
Sister Annunciata is the favourite of the convent, the beloved of all
the girls, and though this naturally leads to certain jealousies,
this very human trait of human nature makes an effective contrast
with the general placidity of the place. The perfect faith in Divine
grace, which is the ruling spirit of the convent, appears beautifully
wonderful to one who moves amid the scepticism of the age, but how much
more beautiful is it in conjunction with the humanity of these girls,
their jealous love for their favourite nun, her impossible efforts not
to show preference, and the striving of the other nuns to be equally
loved? Though they have given up the large world, they have still
their own little one. The beautiful natural craving for affection will
not be renounced.
It was Sister Annunciata’s supremacy in the regard of her pupils that
procured me her friendship, for, being on a visit with some friends in
the neighbourhood of the convent, the young daughters of the house were
eager to take me to see their “dear Sister Annunciata.” They were never
tired of talking of her, and of the many virtues which endeared her to
them, and they would not rest until I knew her too.
The idea of visiting a convent, and talking to a real live nun, was
peculiarly fascinating to me, for my notions of convent life were vague
and mysterious, and I regarded all nuns as uncanny creatures, living
dismal lives in chilly cloisters. That they had renounced the world was
sufficient, in my eyes, to invest them with a kind of unearthliness.
Therefore, I approached the convent with a weird curiosity which I
cannot describe.
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