Woman Triumphant: The story of her struggles for freedom, education and political rights.: Dedicated to all noble-minded women by an appreciative member of the other sex.Cronau, Rudolf
History
Woman Triumphant: The story of her struggles for freedom, education and political rights.: Dedicated to all noble-minded women by an appreciative member of the other sex.
Cronau, Rudolf
Women -- History
About the domestic life of Mohammedan women during former centuries we
know practically nothing, as reliable reports by disinterested observers
are wanting. But the fact that Mohammedan homes and family life were
always secluded from the external world and inaccessible to Christian
explorers travelling through oriental countries, rendered the subject
peculiarly liable to highly exaggerated and sensational reports.
Especially the life in the “Harem,” the women’s quarter, has been
pictured innumerable times as a combination of boundless luxuriance,
lascivity, frivolity, laziness and intrigues. In contradiction several
ladies, who had a chance to study Mohammedan life during the last
century, have asserted, that these reports do not, by any means,
correspond with the truth. There is for instance an essay of Else
Marquardsen about the manners of the Turks, in which she discusses
polygamy. She says: “Throughout the course of many years I was allowed
to visit the homes of many prominent people as well as of the poorer
classes, but I remember only one case, where a man, a high official, had
more than one wife. As a rule I found in all families a spirit of quiet
faithfulness to duty, such as it is not always the case among us. The
women, often compelled to live together with the mother or other female
relatives of their husbands, maintain a good-natured kindness toward
each other, which is really solacing and knows no exception. The great
devotion, shown to the mother by her son as well as by his wife, and
which makes her the most respected member of the whole family, is an
education in humility and self-control, the results of which fill one
with admiration. As the life of the Mohammedan woman, of which her
husband forms the center, is one of repose and seclusion, so she retains
a child-like disposition of sentiment which is indeed touching. Unlike
as it is with us, she is reared in full knowledge of the natural
destination of woman. As soon as she has developed from childhood to
womanhood, she is offered to a man, unknown to her, but whom she
respects as the god-sent medium to impart the sacred mystery by which
she may become a mother. As he gives her the crown of life, she honors
him as her lord. But if it should be her fate to remain barren, then she
does as Sarah, Leah and Rachel did several thousand years ago; she goes
to find another woman, by whom her husband may have children.”
The marriageable age for Mohammedan girls is about twelve, sometimes
less and sometimes more, and the preliminaries are entirely a business
matter conducted by the nearest relatives with much ceremony. After a
definite contract is made it is then that the bride is permitted to see
and speak to her future husband.
[Illustration:
A MOHAMMEDAN WOMAN OF MOROCCO.
]
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