Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. IHill, Georgiana
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Women in English Life from Mediæval to Modern Times, Vol. I
Hill, Georgiana
Women -- Great Britain; Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
“If he be married, the choice of his wife was made rather by
his ear than by his eye; his judgment, not his affection, found
out a fit wife for him....
“As he is just in all things, so is he to his wife also....
Therefore he gives her respect both afore her servants and
others, and half at least of the government of the house,
reserving so much of the affairs as serve for a diversion for
him; yet never giving over the reins, but that he sometimes
looks how things go.”
The ideal wife is thus described:
“Instead of the qualities of the world, he requires only three
of her. First, training up of her children and maids in the
fear of God; with prayers and catechising and all religious
duties. Secondly, a curing and healing of all wounds and sores
with her own hands; which skill either she brought with her, or
he takes care she shall learn it of some religious neighbour.
Thirdly, a providing for her family in some such sort, as that
neither they want a competent sustentation, nor her husband be
brought into debt.”
In modern times a section of the clergy in the English Church have
shown a disposition to revert to the practice of earlier ages, and
follow a celibate life. It is part of the ascetic movement which some
years ago was rather a marked feature in the Church. But even among
those Anglicans who recoil from the term “Protestant,” and endeavour
to preserve as much as possible of the forms of Church government which
prevailed in pre-Reformation times, there are few comparatively who
adopt this species of monasticism.
No doubt marriage has greatly helped to break down the authority of
the priest. A man with a wife and family living the domestic life
of an ordinary citizen is brought at once to the level of common
humanity, priest though he be. He loses that glamour which attached
to him when he was cut off from his fellows and set apart on another
plane by virtue of his office. Women, more than men, have been in all
ages prone to superstitious reverence for ecclesiastical authority.
They are still apt to look to the clergyman to guide them in the daily
affairs of secular life, not because they consider him better qualified
intellectually than other men, but because they have a lurking remnant
of belief in priestly infallibility. There are many who make the
clergyman a referee on all subjects, of whatever nature, and look upon
him as the proper head of every movement, educational, philanthropic,
or otherwise, irrespective of his qualifications for such a position.
The deference paid to clerical opinion and the leaning on clerical
authority are survivals of old habits of thought, weakened in the
process of transmission, but having a strong principle of vitality.
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