A cityless and countryless world : $b An outline of practical cooperative individualismOlerich, Henry
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A cityless and countryless world : $b An outline of practical cooperative individualism
Olerich, Henry
Cooperation; Social problems -- Miscellanea
has on society? Have you ever considered how little conditions can be
suited for the rearing of children in a society in which each married
couple live together in a little house either in a crowded city or in
a lonely country? Have you ever thought how much lying, deceit and
underhand work is practiced between many a husband and wife because of
their marital constraint? Have you ever thought how many men and women
are married for life who are entirely unsuited in temperament and in
disposition? Did you ever think how much pouting and ill-feeling, how
many quarrels and fights there are in married life all over your world.
I suppose you have noticed the continual increase of your divorces.
Have you noticed that divorces are most numerous in those vocations
in which women are most independent financially, such as actresses,
etc.? Do you know what that means? Have you ever thought how much
ill-feeling your sectarianism and partyism causes between husband and
wife? Have you ever thought how repugnant, burdensome, and fatal to
life and health it is for a woman to live a sexually intemperate life?
Your statistics show that your fallen women live their life of sin, in
an average, less than three years, so disagreeable is a life of sexual
intemperance to a woman; yet in wedlock, the man largely runs the
sexual affairs to suit his own perverted taste. Have you ever thought
how often a man or a woman when married have to do something that is
disagreeable to the one or to the other? One wants to go to church,
the other does not; one wants to go to a neighbor, the other does not;
one wants the child baptized, the other does not, etc. Have you ever
thought how much room and opportunity there is for aggressiveness when
two are indissolubly bound together for life? Have you ever thought
that your women have no public places to go to? Your men, who handle
the money, build saloons, club-rooms, etc., for themselves, but they
rarely ever invest a nickel in a public building for the women and
children. The church seems to be the only public place your women can
go to, and when they are there they have to be silent, so that they
can not exchange ideas with one another there. Have you ever thought
why you have so many more ladies in your churches than you have men?
Do you think this would be the case if women were free and independent
like our ladies are? I presume you have all noticed that your ladies
have a great desire for personal ornaments, for unique decorations, for
expensive, gaudy costumes, for elaborate hair dressing, face powder,
etc., and for a continuous change of fashion. These characteristics
are apparently much more strongly developed in your women than in your
men. In the lower animals, the male is almost invariable the gaudiest,
the most decorative. Why do you think there is an apparent exception
in _your_ human race? Remember, not in _ours_. In our world, the human
family is no more an exception to this rule like it once was and like
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