A Commonplace Book of Thoughts, Memories, and Fancies.: 2nd ed.Jameson, Mrs. (Anna)
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A Commonplace Book of Thoughts, Memories, and Fancies.: 2nd ed.
Jameson, Mrs. (Anna)
Art and literature; Commonplace books; Ethics; Quotations
He contends for the indissolubility of marriage, and against divorce;
and he thinks that education should be in the hands of women to the age
of ten or twelve, “Afin que le cœur y prévale toujours sur l’esprit:”
all very excellent principles, but supposing a _hypothetical_ social and
moral state, from which we are as yet far removed. What he says,
however, of the indissolubility of the marriage bond is so beautiful and
eloquent, and so in accordance with my own moral theories, that I cannot
help extracting it from a mass of heavy and sometimes unintelligible
matter. He begins by laying it down as a principle that the
“amélioration morale de l’homme constitue la principale mission de la
femme,” and that “une telle destination indique aussitôt que le lien
conjugal doit être unique et indissoluble, afin que les relations
domestiques puissent acquérir la plénitude et la fixité qu’exige leur
efficacité morale.” This, however, supposes the holiest and completest
of all bonds to be sealed on terms of equality, not that the latter end
of a man’s life, _la vie usée et la jeunesse épuisée_, are to be tacked
on to the beginning of a woman’s fresh and innocent existence; for then
influences are reversed, and instead of the amelioration of the
masculine, we have the demoralisation of the feminine, nature. He
supposes the possibility of circumstances which demand a personal
separation, but even then _sans permettre un nouveau mariage_. In such a
case his religion imposes on the innocent victim (whether man or woman)
“une chasteté compatible d’ailleurs avec la plus profonde tendresse. Si
cette condition lui semble rigoureuse, il doit l’accepter, d’abord, en
vue de l’ordre général; puis, comme une juste conséquence de son erreur
primitive.”
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