A day in old Rome : $b a picture of Roman lifeDavis, William Stearns
History
A day in old Rome : $b a picture of Roman life
Davis, William Stearns
Rome -- Social life and customs
These are simply random cases. Of course, many people know the tribute
Pliny the Younger paid to his own wife Calpurnia, much younger than
himself but absolutely devoted to her husband: “She has a keen
intelligence, she is wonderfully economical, and she loves me.” He went
on to add that she read all his literary effusions most carefully,
sat behind a curtain to listen when he gave public recitations before
a male audience, and that when he had to argue in court had relays
of runners to keep her informed as to how well he was impressing the
judges. When the twain were separated she “would embrace his letters as
though they were himself,” while he (if he got no new letters from her)
“would read over her old letters and take them up again and again as
though they were new ones.”
=64. The Story of Turia.=--One day when Gratia had caught young
Junia overhearing a very uncanny story of a rich old lady who kept a
whole troupe of profligate actors for her own private amusement, she
took her out upon the magnificent avenue of stately tombs along the
Appian Way to visit the memorial to a venerated ancestress,--a certain
Turia who had lived in the troubled days of the Second Triumvirate,
and who by her rare courage, fortitude, and intelligence had saved her
husband the noble Vespillo from disgrace and death.
Turia’s husband in a long inscription recited how she had saved his
life in the Civil Wars at sore peril to her own, and how she had lived
with him afterward in perfect affection and harmony, although, being
childless, such was her devotion to him that she actually offered
to let Vespillo divorce her that he might have children by a second
marriage, promising very literally “to be a sister” to his new wife.
But her husband repudiated the strange idea with anger: “That you
should have ever thought it possible we could be separated save by
death was most horrible to me. The one sorrow that was in store for me
was that I was destined to survive you.”
And thus the tablet concluded: “You were a faithful and obedient wife;
you were kind and gracious, sociable and friendly; you were assiduous
in your spinning; you followed our family and national religious rites
and admitted no foreign superstitions; you did not dress conspicuously,
nor make any kind of household display. Your management of our house
was exemplary; you tended my mother as carefully as if she had been
your own. You had innumerable other excellencies, common to the best
type of matrons, but these I mention are peculiarly your own.”[32]
Turia has been dead over a hundred years, but there are still high-born
women in Rome who are her equals. One of them, Calvilla, has a fine
young son now about thirteen, who owes an infinite debt to his mother,
and whom the Emperor will presently select as the heir presumptive to
the throne. History will call him Marcus Aurelius.
CHAPTER V
COSTUME AND PERSONAL ADORNMENT
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