A girl's life eighty years ago : $b Selections from the letters of Eliza Southgate BowneBowne, Eliza Southgate
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A girl's life eighty years ago : $b Selections from the letters of Eliza Southgate Bowne
Bowne, Eliza Southgate
Bowne, Eliza Southgate, 1783-1809; United States -- Social life and customs -- 1783-1865
I hope, my dear Miranda, this will be the last letter you will receive
from me at Charleston. Poor Mr. Bowne arrived here on Thursday. Not a
word had he heard, and owing to his having left New York he had not
received a single very alarming letter. He was entirely unprepared for
the shock which awaited him; never did I pity any one so. He is indeed
borne down with the weight of his grief. But the violence I dreaded I
see nothing of. There is no judging from the effect little troubles
have upon people, how they will bear great ones. I know it by myself—I
see it in him. He is more composed to-day, and we are making
arrangements to get away. He is much gratified that we waited here for
him, which we had some doubt about on account of the great expense in
these houses. The Minerva, a very fine Packet, arrived from New York
yesterday. We shall return in her. She will go in the course of a week
or ten days. What a melancholy voyage! But yet I will not think so. I
am going to my dear father and mother, my kind sisters,—indeed, ’tis a
delightful thought.
Your sister,
O. BROWNE.
Among the letters which were so carefully preserved by her daughter,
Mrs. Lawrence, was found the following extract from a daily paper:—
Died at Charleston, S. C., on the 19th ult., Mrs. Walter Bowne,
consort of Walter Bowne, Esq., of New York, and daughter of the Hon.
Robert Southgate, of Scarborough, Maine, aged 25 years. The Bereaved
Husband and infant children, the afflicted parents, Brethren and
sisters, and the numerous respectable friends and acquaintances by
whom she was so justly respected and beloved for her talents and
virtues, will deeply mourn this early signal triumph of the King of
Terrors. But they will not “sorrow as those without hope.” Her
immortal spirit, liberated from the body, is, we trust, already
admitted to a clear and perfect, an immediate and positive, a
soul-transforming and eternal vision of God and the Redeemer. Why
the most endearing ties of nature should be dissolved almost as soon
as formed, why the dreadful law of mortality should be executed on
the most worthy and dearest objects of conjugal, parental, and
social love, in the moment of sanguine expectation of reciprocal
enjoyment, is among the dark and mysterious questions in the book of
Providence. The ways of God are inscrutable to man, “clouds and
darkness are round about him, yet righteousness and judgment are the
habitation of his throne.” All afflictive events are readily
resolved into the wisdom of God. To his sovereign will, reason and
religion, duty and interest require us to bow with reverence. What a
dark and gloomy veil is spread by the early death of our friends
over our earthly enjoyments! How tenderly are we hereby admonished
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