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A girl's life eighty years ago : $b Selections from the letters of Eliza Southgate Bowne
Bowne, Eliza Southgate
Bowne, Eliza Southgate, 1783-1809; United States -- Social life and customs -- 1783-1865
Arrived in Salem, met Mrs. Derby at the door who received us joyfully.
At tea-time saw the children, fine boys, very fond of Ellen and are
managed by their Father with great judgment. How few understand the true
art of managing children, and how often is the important task of forming
young minds left to the discretion of servants who caress or reprove as
the impulse of the moment compels them. Here are we convinced of the
great necessity that Mothers, or all ladies should have cultivated
minds, as the first rudiments of education are always received from
them, and at that early period of life when the mind is open to every
new impression and ready to receive the seeds which must form the future
principles of the character. At that time how important is it to be
judicious in your conduct towards them! In the evening Mr. Hasket Derby
came in on his return from New York; he is a fine, majestic-looking man,
tho’ he strikes you rather heavy and unwieldy on his first appearance;
he says little, yet does not appear absent,—has travelled much, and in
his manners has an easy unassuming politeness that is not the
acquirement of a day.—Wednesday morning had an agreeable tete-a-tete
with Ellen, talked over all our affairs: in the afternoon rode out to
Hersey Derby’s[27] farm, about 3 miles from Salem; a most delightful
place! The gardens superior to any I have ever seen of the kind;
cherries in perfection! We really feasted! There are 3 divisions in the
gardens, and you pass from the lower one to the upper thro’ several
arches rising one above the other. From the lower gate you have a fine
perspective view of the whole range, rising gradually until the sight is
terminated by a hermitage. The summer house in the center has an arch
thro’ it with 3 doors on each side which open into little apartments,
and one of them opens to a staircase by which you ascend into a square
room the whole size of the building; it has a fine airy appearance and
commands a view of the whole garden; two large chestnut trees on each
side almost shade it from the view when seen from the sides; the air
from the windows is always pure and cool, and the eye wanders with
delight and admiration over the extensive landscape below, so
beautifully variegated with the charms of nature. Imagination luxuriates
with delight, and as it plays o’er the beauties of an opening flower,
imperceptibly wanders to the first principles of nature, its wonderful
and surprising operation; its harmony and beauty. The room is ornamented
with some Chinese figures and seems calculated for serenity and peace.
’Tis like the pavilion of Caroline, and I almost looked around me for
the music of the Guitar and books; but I heard not the tramplings of
Lindorf’s horse, nor did I sing to hear the echo of his voice,—“Listen
to love, and thou shalt know indifference or bless the foe;” certain it
is, however, I thought of Caroline the moment I entered. We descended,
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