A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 1 of 3Howard, George Elliott
History
A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 1 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
the closeness of the family circle, where practical as well as
religious considerations cause parents to prevent any dangerous
connections." Westermarck's theory, he holds, does not account
for all the facts; for example, "that to no little extent
brothers and sisters, mothers and sons, fathers and daughters,
do _not_ live together. This is a result of sexual taboo, and
is originally a part of the cause why such marriage is avoided,
and not a result of avoidance of incest." In short, it "is
the application of sexual taboo to brothers and sisters, who,
because they are of opposite sexes, of the same generation, and
are in close contact, and for no other reasons, are regarded as
potentially marriageable, that is the foundation of exogamy and
the marriage system." _Cf._ LANG, _Social Origins_,
10-34, 238-40 note, whose criticism of Westermarck and McLennan
follows similar lines; and ATKINSON, _Primal Law_,
209-40, who believes that jealousy may have set up a bar to
sexual unions within the "fire-circle" before totems or the idea
of incest arose.
Exogamy appears, then, to be the result of natural selection,
arising "when single families united in small hordes. It could
not but grow up if the idea of union between persons intimately
associated with one another was an object of innate repugnance."
Conversely, the law of similarity enables us to understand the
coexistence of clan-exogamy and tribal endogamy. The one springs
from a horror of sexual union between persons who are too near; the
other arises in a dislike of connection between those who are too
remote. Among primitive men, and sometimes even among those well
advanced in civilization, there exists a shrinking from physical
contact with strange races only less violent than the aversion
which the dread of incest excites. But this prejudice yields to
the sympathy produced by the growing similarity of interests,
ideas, sentiments, and general culture among men. Sympathy, upon
which affection mainly depends, has widened the sphere of sexual
selection.[398]
[398] Consult the very interesting chapter of
WESTERMARCK on "Selection as Influenced by Affection and
Sympathy, and by Calculation," _op. cit._, 356 ff. "Affection
depends in a very high degree upon sympathy. Though distinct
aptitudes, these two classes of emotions are most intimately
connected: affection is strengthened by sympathy, and sympathy
is strengthened by affection.... If love is excited by contrast,
it is so only within certain limits. The contrast must not be so
great as to exclude sympathy."--_Ibid._, 362. "Civilization,"
he adds, "has narrowed the inner limit, within which a man or
woman must not marry;" while "it has widened the outer limit
within which a man or woman _may_ marry and generally marries.
The latter of these processes has been one of vast importance in
man's history."--_Ibid._, 376.
IV. THE PROBLEM OF THE SUCCESSIVE FORMS OF THE FAMILY
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