A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 1 of 3Howard, George Elliott
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A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 1 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
The symbol of capture is especially prominent in Celtic song and
custom. As in the German epics, it was not thought unseemly for the
daughter to marry the hero who had slain her father.[531] "According
to tradition the Picts robbed the Gaels of their women, so that
the latter were compelled to intermarry with aboriginal inhabitants
of the land."[532] Near the beginning of last century the following
marriage ceremony was customary in Wales: "On the morning of the
wedding day the bridegroom, accompanied by his friends on horseback,
demands the bride. Her friends, who are likewise on horseback, give
a positive refusal, upon which a mock scuffle ensues. The bride,
mounted behind her nearest kinsman, is carried off and is pursued
by the bridegroom and his friends, with loud shouts. It is not
uncommon on such an occasion to see two or three hundred sturdy
Cambro-Britons riding at full speed, crossing and jostling, to
the no small amusement of the spectators. When they have fatigued
themselves and their horses, the bridegroom is supposed to overtake
his bride. He leads her away in triumph, and the scene is concluded
with feasting and festivity."[533] Still more real is the sham
contest in Ireland. As late as the middle of last century, in
mountain districts, the bridegroom "was compelled in honor, to run
off with his betrothed, even when there was not the least need of
it."[534] On the day of home-bringing, after the purchase-contract
had been concluded, "the bridegroom and his friends rode out to meet
the bride and her friends, at the place where the contract was made.
Being come near each other the custom was of old to cast short darts
at the company that attended the bride, but at such distance that
seldom any hurt ensued. Yet it is not out of memory of man that the
Lord of Hoath on such an occasion lost an eye."[535]
[528] DARGUN, _op. cit._, 101; FUSTEL DE
COULANGES, _op. cit._, 56; ROSSBACH, _op. cit._,
359.
[529] DARGUN, _op. cit._, 88; SCHROEDER,
_Hochzeitsbräuche_, 88 ff.; LUBBOCK, _Origin
of Civilization_, 85, 86, 122, 123; POST,
_Geschlechtsgenossenschaft_, 60; MCLENNAN, _op. cit._,
I, 19. BANCROFT gives an interesting description of the
custom among the California Indians: "On the appointed day the
girl, decked in all her finery, and accompanied by her family
and relations, was carried in the arms of one of her kinsfolk
toward the house of her lover.... The party was met half-way
by a deputation from the bridegroom, one of whom now took the
young woman in his arms and carried her to the house of her
husband."--_Native Races_, I, 411.
[530] LUBBOCK, _op. cit._, 86; DAVIS, _The
Chinese_, I, 285; LETOURNEAU, _op. cit._, 144, 145;
POST, _op. cit._, 57.
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