A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3Howard, George Elliott
History
A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
[Footnote 569: According to WORTHINGTON'S _History of Dedham_
(1827), 109--"a town only ten miles from Boston--I find that the
Rev. Mr. Haven, the pastor of the church there, alarmed at the
number of cases of unlawful cohabitation, preached at least as
late as 1781 'a long and memorable discourse,' in which, with
a courage deserving of unstinted praise, he dealt with 'the
growing sin' publicly from his pulpit, attributing 'the frequent
recurrence of the fault to the custom then prevalent of females
admitting young men to their beds who sought their company with
intentions of marriage.'"--ADAMS, _op. cit._, 35. STILES, _op.
cit._, 75-77, note, gives a long extract from Worthington, who
represents Haven's sermon as having had a powerful influence in
setting aside the custom of bundling. But already before this
Jonathan Edwards had raised his voice against it.]
[Footnote 570: ADAMS, _op. cit._, 35; citing MRS. JOHN ADAMS'S
_Letters_ (1848), 161.]
[Footnote 571: STILES, _op. cit._, 110, note, where personal
testimony is adduced.]
[Footnote 572: See the Appendix to STILES, _op. cit._, 113-25,
where an article from the _Yankee_, of Aug. 13, 1828, containing
the letter mentioned, is quoted. A search in the manuscript
court records reveals not a single clear case of bundling. On
Jan. 30, 1709-10, Jane Lee, widow, was presented and acquitted
in Charlestown for conduct resembling bundling: _MSS. Records of
the Court of Gen. Sessions of Suffolk_, I, 202. There is a more
probable example in the _MSS. Records of the Court of General
Sessions of Middlesex_ (Dec. 15, 1702), I, 137.]
According to the judgment of Stiles, bundling "came nearest to being
a universal custom from 1750 to 1780." Contrary to the popular
view,[573] it appears to have been confined to the more humble and
less cultivated classes; "to those whose limited means compelled
them to economize strictly in their expenditure of firewood and
candle-light."[574] No evidence has yet been produced showing
that it made its appearance in the main centers of New England
civilization.
[Footnote 573: Thus SHIRLEY, "Early Jurisprudence of New Hamp.,"
_Procds. New Hamp. Hist. Soc._ (1876-84), 308, declares that "the
practice prevailed very largely in New England, among the rich
and the poor, the educated and the uneducated, the cultivated and
the uncultivated."]
[Footnote 574: STILES, _op. cit._, 65, 106. ADAMS, _op. cit._,
31, 32, 36, reaches the same conclusion. "It was," he says, "a
practice growing out of the social and industrial conditions of a
primitive people, of simple, coarse manners and small means," and
probably did not exist in Boston, Salem, or Plymouth.]
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