A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3Howard, George Elliott
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A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
[Footnote 612: _Plym. Col. Rec._, V, 116.]
These illustrations would seem to show that the blighted hopes and
disappointed affections of New England lovers were not judicially
reckoned at an extortionate figure. But those were the days of
"small change" in all domestic affairs. As a matter of fact, the
colonists were a close-fisted, bargaining race;[613] and in no
respect perhaps were they more prudent than in their matrimonial
transactions. Sometimes very careful contracts were executed in
court regarding the property rights of the future husband and
wife.[614] Often before betrothal and almost invariably before
wedlock an exact arrangement was made between the parents touching
the marriage portion on either side. The "higgling of dowries,"
suggests Weeden, was one of the most "singular practices" of New
England life.[615] Even paupers were provided a marriage portion at
the county's charge.[616] No shrewder hand at a bargain existed
than Judge Sewall, whose _Diary_ and _Letter-Book_ are crowded
with illustrations of this and other matrimonial customs. In 1712
we find him planning a match between his daughter Mary and young
Samuel Gerrish. So he dines with the father and "discourses" with
him "about my Daughter Mary's Portion. I stood for making £550 doe:
because now twas in six parts, the Land was not worth so much. He
urg'd for £600. at last would split the £50. Finally Feb. 20. I
agreed to charge the House Rent and Difference of Money, and make it
up to £600."[617]
[Footnote 613: For many proofs of the niggardly economy and
exceeding "nearness" of the old New Englander see BLISS,
_Colonial Times on Buzzard's Bay_; WEEDEN, _Ecc. and Soc. Hist.
of N. E._; and especially the _Diary_ and _Letter-Book_ of SAMUEL
SEWALL.]
[Footnote 614: An example is afforded by the _Plym. Col. Rec._,
IV, 163, where a stipulation is entered into between a widow and
a widower about to marry. By this agreement the children are to
remain "att the free and proper and onely dispose of theire owne
naturall parents, as they shall see good to dispose of them." The
wife is to retain "all her house and land goods & cattles, that
shee is now possessed of, ... to dispose of them att her owne
free will." If the husband die first, she is to have "one third
pte ... of his estate that hee dieth possessed of ... during her
life;" while in case of her death, the husband's property is to
go to his heirs, "excepting her wearing apparrell and her bed
and bedding ... which shee shall and may giue att her death to
whom she pleaseth." For another such marriage agreement see _MSS.
Early Court Files of Suffolk_ (1671), No. 1063. In the _MSS.
Records of the Superior Court of Common Pleas for Middlesex_
(1707), I, 103, is a suit to recover a gift made to a fiancée as
legacy.]
[Footnote 615: WEEDEN, _Ecc. and Soc. Hist. of N. E._, I, 413;
_cf. ibid._, I, 420, II, 541 ff.; also EARLE, _Customs and
Fashions_, 62 ff., 43 ff.]
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