[Footnote 639: _Ibid._, 275.] Several other attempts prove not more successful in providing the venerable widower with a suitable place to rest his "weary Head in Modesty."[640] But at last, humbly confessing himself, "aged, and feeble, and exhausted," he offers himself as a husband to Mrs. Mary Gibbs, of Newton, who is all too yielding in her reply.[641] For with this gentle dame the astute wooer, erstwhile so meek, at once proceeds to drive the sharpest bargain in the long history of his courtships. As she had no property to leave him by will, he insists upon the following harsh conditions: "I Rode to Newtown in the Coach, and visited Mrs. Gibbs. Spake of the proposals I had intimated per Mr. H. Gibbs; for her Sons to be bound to save me harmless as to her Administration; and to pay me £100. provided their Mother died before me: I to pay her £50. per a[=n]um during her Life, if I left her a Widow. She said 'twas hard, she knew not how to have her children bound to pay that Sum; she might dye in a little time. Mr. Cotton, whom she call'd spake to the same purpose, spake of a Joynture. I said I was peremptory as to the indemnifying Bond; Offer'd to take up with that alone, and allow her forty pounds per a[=n]um."[642] [Footnote 640: EARLE, _Customs and Fashions of Old New England_.] [Footnote 641: SEWALL'S _Diary_, _loc. cit._, 299 (Jan. 12, 1722), 300.] [Footnote 642: _Ibid._, 300, 301.] These terms, "hard" as they were and again insisted upon with most unromantic bluntness,[643] were at length accepted by the amiable Mary; who, surviving her kindly though grasping spouse, was no doubt by his side, according to his wish, to "carry it tenderly"[644] with him when he passed to his last reckoning. [Footnote 643: "Madam, These are kindly to salute you, and to say, that the Omission of Answering one or two of my Letters, and of coming to Town, makes it needful to enquire, what the plain meaning of your letter of Jan^y. 30^{th} may be. 'I do chuse to comply with your last proposal, of Releasing my children, and Accepting of the sum you proposed.' The last Proposal was, For your children, or some in their behalf, to give Bond, to indemnify me from all debts contracted by you before the Marriage; and from all matters respecting the Administration. This I told you, I peremptorially insist on. I was to secure you Forty pounds per a[=n]um during the term of your natural Life, in case of your Survival. This proposal must be taken entirely, every part of it together, and if the words '_Releasing my Children_' intend a Releasing them from this Bond, my last Proposal is not accepted by you."--_Ibid._, 303 (Feb. 10, 1722).]