A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3Howard, George Elliott
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A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
It is needful in the outset, as already suggested, frankly to accept
marriage and the family as social institutions whose problems must
be studied in connection with the actual conditions of modern social
life. It is vain to appeal to ideals born of old and very different
conditions. The guiding light will come, not from authority,
but from a rational understanding of the existing facts. Small
progress can be expected while leaning upon tradition. The appeal
to theological criteria is, no doubt, matter of conscience on the
part of many earnest men. Nevertheless the vast literature which
seeks to solve social questions through the juggling with ancient
texts seems in reality to be largely a monument of wasted energy.
Much of it is sterile, or but serves to retard progress or to befog
the issue. Witness the perennial discussion of the "scriptural"
grounds of divorce, or of the Levitical sanction or condemnation of
marriage with a deceased wife's sister! Witness the vapid homilies
and treatises on the wedded life! There is, in truth, urgent need
that the moral leaders of men should preach actual instead of
conventional social righteousness. It is high time that the family
and its related institutions should be as freely and openly and
unsparingly subjected to scientific examination as are the facts of
modern political or industrial life.
From the infancy of the human race, we have already seen, the
monogamic family has been the _prevailing_ type. There have been,
it is true, many variations, many aberrations, from this type
under diverse conditions, religious, economic, or social. Under
changing influences the interrelations of the members of the
group--of husband and wife, of parent and child--and their relations
individually and collectively to the state, have varied from age
to age or from people to people. There have been wife-capture,
wife-purchase and the _patria potestas_. But in essential
character--at first for biological, later for ethical or spiritual
reasons--the general tendency has always been toward a higher,
more clearly differentiated type of the single pairing family.
Moreover, setting aside all question of special priestly sanctions,
the healthiest social sentiment has more and more demanded that the
"pairing" should be lasting. Whether of Jew or gentile, the highest
ideal of marriage has become that of a lifelong partnership. Are
these tendencies to remain unbroken? Is the stream of evolution
to proceed, gaining in purity and strength? Are marriage and the
family doomed; or are they capable of adaptation, of reform and
development, so as to satisfy the higher material and ethical
requirements of the advancing generations? Seemingly they are
now menaced by serious dangers. Some of them have their origin
in the new conditions of a society which is undergoing a swift
transition, a mighty transformation, industrially, intellectually,
and spiritually; while others, perhaps the more imminent, are
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