A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3Howard, George Elliott
History
A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
The fear that the education of woman, in connection with her growing
economic independence, will prove harmful to society through her
refusal of matrimony or maternity appears equally groundless.
According to Dike, "the demand for her enfranchisement, either
as a right or on the ground of expediency, grows out of this way
of treating her as an individual whose relations to society are
less a matter of condition and more of personal choice. And this
principle is carried into a sphere entirely her own. A partial
loss of capacity for maternity has, it is said, already befallen
American women; and the voluntary refusal of its responsibilities
is the lament of the physician and the moralist."[815] It is true
that the birth-rate is falling.[816] So far as this depends upon
male sensuality, a prevalent cause of sterility; upon selfish love
of ease and luxury--of which men even more than women are guilty;
or upon the disastrous influence of the present extremes of wealth
and poverty--of which women as well as men are the victims--it is a
serious evil which may well cause us anxiety; but so far as it is
the result of the desire for fewer but better-born children--for
which, let us hope, the advancing culture of woman may in part be
responsible--it is in fact a positive social good.[817] It is true
also that, while fewer and fewer marriages in proportion to the
population are taking place, men as well as women are marrying later
and later in life.[818] Here again, for the reasons just mentioned,
the results are both good and bad. Certain it is that early
marriages and excessive child-bearing have been the twin causes
of much injury to the human race. "To the superficial observer,"
declares a writer very conservative as to the effects of woman's
emancipation, "it may appear that every marriage must enrich the
state, and that early marriages must lessen the amount of sexual
immorality, but inquiry will prove conclusively how fallacious are
those views. Early marriages certainly tend to the production of
large families, but then a family, to be a source of wealth to the
state, must at least be self-supporting, which is exactly what the
feeble, degenerate children of the great mass of our early marriages
are not. They are brought forth ill-developed and unhealthy; their
immature, improvident parents are unable to either feed or educate
them as they ought to be fed and educated; hence, instead of being a
source of wealth to the state, they prove a serious drain upon her
resources. A large percentage of these miserable children succumb
during infancy, but a great number drag out a pitiful existence,
only to become inmates of our workhouses and infirmaries, our
asylums and prisons, and, after being supported at the public
expense for a longer or shorter period, to die prematurely, leaving
the state poorer than they found it and no better. It is indeed a
small percentage of the children of the immature that ever become
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