A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3Howard, George Elliott
History
A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
_Cosmopolitan_, XXVIII, 183 ff., on "sex-parasitism."
[832] _Cf._ STETSON, _op. cit._, 156 ff. "The woman's club
movement is one of the most important sociological phenomena of
the century--indeed, of all centuries--marking as it does the
first timid steps toward social organization of these so long
unsocialized members of our race;" for "social life is absolutely
conditioned upon organization."--_Ibid._, 164. On woman's clubs
see CROLY, _Hist. of the Woman's Club Movement in America_;
HENROTIN, _Attitude of Women's Clubs Toward Social Economics_;
LIVERMORE, _North Am. Rev._, CL, 115; ANSTRUTHER, _Nineteenth
Century_, XLV, 598-611; and a symposium in _Arena_, VI, 362-88.
The financial dependence of the wife is discussed by COOKE, "Real
Rights of Women," _North Am. Rev._, CXLIX, 353, 354; and by
IVES, "Domestic Purse Strings," _Forum_, X, 106-14, showing the
hardships and temptations of wives dependent upon the husband for
current supplies of money.
We are thus confronted by still another phase of the emancipation
movement--the divorce problem. In this problem woman has a peculiar
interest. The wife more frequently than the husband is seeking
in divorce a release from marital ills; for in her case it often
involves an escape from sexual slavery. The divorce movement,
therefore, is in part an expression of woman's growing independence.
In this instance as in others it does not, of course, follow that
the individualistic tendency is vicious. Nowhere in the field of
social ethics, perhaps, is there more confusion of thought than in
dealing with the divorce question. Divorce is not favored by anyone
for its own sake. Probably in every healthy society the ideal of
right marriage is a lifelong union. But what if it is not right,
if the marriage is a failure? Is there no relief? Here a sharp
difference of opinion has arisen. Some persons look upon divorce
as an evil in itself; others as a "remedy" for, or a "symptom" of,
social disease. The one class regard it as a cause; the other as
an effect. To the Roman Catholic, and to those who believe with
him, divorce is a sin, the sanction of "successive polygamy,"[833]
of "polygamy on the instalment plan."[834] At the other extreme
are those who, like Milton and Humboldt,[835] would allow marriage
to be dissolved freely by mutual consent, or even at the desire
of either spouse. Nay, there are earnest souls, shocked by the
intolerable hardships which wives may suffer under the marital
yoke, who, pending a reform in the marriage law, would, like the
Quakers of earlier days, ignore the present statutory requirements
and resort to private contract.[836] According to the prevailing
opinion, however, as expressed in modern legislation, divorce
should be allowed, with more or less freedom, under careful state
regulation. Whatever degree of liberty may be just or expedient
in a more advanced state of moral development, it is felt that
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