A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3Howard, George Elliott
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A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
How shall the needed reform be accomplished? The raising of ideals
is a slow process. It will not come through the statute-maker,
though he can do something to provide a legal environment favorable
for the change. It must come through an earnest and persistent
educational effort which shall fundamentally grapple with the
whole group of problems which concern the related, though distinct,
institutions of marriage, the home, and the family. In this work
every grade in the educational structure, from the university to
the kindergarten and the home circle, must have its appropriate
share. Already a few of our higher institutions have made a worthy
beginning. Departments of physical culture, economics, history, and
sociology are providing instruction of real value. But the movement
should become universal; and the curriculum should be broadened and
deepened. The actual concrete problems must be dealt with frankly
and without flinching. To gain the right perspective it is highly
important that a thorough historical basis should be laid through
the study of ethnology, comparative religion, and the evolution
of cultural, economic, and matrimonial institutions. Moreover,
the elements of such a training in domestic sociology should find
a place in the public school program. If need be, a little more
arithmetic or a little more Latin may be sacrificed. Where now,
except perhaps in an indirect or perfunctory way, does the school
boy or girl get any practical suggestion as to home-building, the
right social relations of parent and child, much less regarding
marriage and the fundamental questions of the sexual life? In this
field the home, as the complement or coadjutor of the school and the
state, has a precious opportunity. Indeed, our inspiring hope lies
in the fact that, in spite of unfavorable conditions, many homes,
presided over by enlightened parents, are discharging worthily, if
not yet ideally, the high function of social training. Here father,
mother, and child are equal members of the "trinity." Here it is
held as binding an obligation and as joyous a privilege for the
parents to honor their children as for the children to honor their
parents. Of a truth, is there anything on earth more beautiful and
inspiring than the real companionship of parent and child; than a
home life in which the characters of the young are molded and their
faculties drawn out by free and frank discussion with their elders;
where mutual love is based on mutual respect? But what shall be said
of the opposite picture--of the countless families in which mother
and child still cower before the paternal despot; where authority
and not reason prevails; where, as in the good old colonial days,
the child is harshly thrust into the background and his insistent
individualism is insulted and repressed? Before the home can become
a healthful school for social education, parents must themselves be
trained; they must become aware of their real place in the social
order.
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