A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3Howard, George Elliott
History
A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
of the heart as much as of the head.... In the mating of men and
women, money, social position, worldly expediency, the conventional
and fictitious values so influential in these days, will count for
much less, while organic health and efficiency, character, unselfish
devotion to high ideals, to the great world interests will count
for far more. In this obedience to ideals so farsighted, romantic
love will not be lost in any way, as some seem to fear. Men and
women will not choose one another in cold blood simply because
intelligence and reason point the way, but human sentiment and
every romantic quality will be enhanced when permanent and future
interests are furthered by a saner and finer human choice."[845]
[844] For a radical discussion of this topic, see STANLEY,
"Artificial Selection and the Marriage Problem," _Monist_, II,
51 ff.; _idem_, "Our Civilization and the Marriage Problem,"
_Arena_, II, 94-100. He is criticised by WALLACE, "Human
Selection," _Fort. Rev._, XLVIII, 325 ff. An extreme position
is taken by GRANT ALLEN, "The Girl of the Future," _Universal
Rev._, May, 1890; and "Plain Words on the Woman Question," _Fort.
Rev._, Oct., 1889. _Cf._ WERTHEIMER, "Homiculture," _Nineteenth
Century_, XXIV, 390-92.
[845] See DR. THOMAS D. WOOD'S able paper, _Some Controlling
Ideals of the Family Life of the Future_, 27.
There is then no need to despair of the future. It is vain to turn
back the hand on the dial. The problem of individual liberty has
become the problem of social liberty. Individualization for the sake
of socialization must continue its beneficent work. There must be
growth, constant readjustment. Marriage will in truth be holy if it
rests on the free trothplight of equals whose love is deep enough
to embrace a rational regard for the rights of posterity. The home
will not have less sanctity when through it flows the stream of the
larger human life. The family will, indeed, survive; but it will
be a family of a higher type. Its evolution is not yet complete.
Coercive ties will still further yield to voluntary spiritual ties;
for individual liberty appears to be the essential condition of
social progress.
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