But as time goes on and as the number of his wants increase these
gestures lose some of their magic. The number of the conditions
increase to which he has to submit. “The outstretched hand must often
be drawn back empty.... Indeed, an invincible hostile power may
forcibly oppose itself to this gesture and compel the hand to resume
its former position.” At this point his sense of reality begins; the
sense, that is to say, of something outside himself which does not
submit to his wishes. “Till now the ‘all-powerful’ being has been
able [p179] to feel himself one with the world that obliged him
and followed his every nod, but gradually there appears a painful
discordance in his experiences.” Because all experiences are no longer
incorporated in the ego, Ferenczi calls this the Projection Phase.
But though the child has now begun to discern the existence of reality,
his sense of that reality is still quite imperfect. At first, perhaps,
he regards this outer world, though it opposes his wishes, as having
qualities like his own. Ferenczi calls this the Animistic Period.
The child then begins to talk and to substitute for gestures actual
statements of what he desires. Provided he lives in a household bent on
fulfilling his wants as soon as possible, he retains to a very great
degree the illusion that his wishes are sovereign. Ferenczi calls this
the Period of Magic Thoughts and Magic Words.
Finally, if he matures successfully, he passes into the last period
where he is no longer under the domination of the pleasure-principle:
the feeling of omnipotence gives way to the full appreciation of the
force of circumstances. Now unfortunately neither Freud nor Ferenczi,
nor, so far as I know, any other psychoanalyst, devotes much attention
to this last phase of maturity in which the sense of reality has become
perfected. They are preoccupied with pathology; that is to say, with
the problems which arise out of a failure to attain this last stage in
which the adult makes a complete adjustment with his world because his
wishes are matured to accept the conditions which reality imposes.
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